How to Experiment with Anal Sex

When done properly and with the right steps, anal sex can be a pleasurable experience. But since the area is so sensitive, cleaning, maintaining and preparation are of vital importance. Follow these steps if you and your partner want to experiment with anal sex.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• Water-based lubricant
• Condoms

Experiment with Anal Sex

1. Discuss the topic of anal sex with your partner, making sure to clear up any questions either side may have. Being open with each other will help convince your partner to try it.
2. Wash the anus and surrounding area. You must make sure this area is as clean as possible before penetration. Wash the penis as well, just as thoroughly.
3. Massage the anus and surrounding area. The anus will contract when you first touch it, preventing entry. You need to get the anal muscles to relax prior to any insertion.
4. Lubricate the anus with a water-based lubricant or saliva. Gently massage the anal ring with light circular strokes. Push gently in on the anal ring, but do not penetrate the anus. Continue doing this, and you will feel the muscles relax and the anus open up.
5. Start inserting the tip of a lubricated finger into the anus when it is relaxed. Do not move your finger around, just push it in slowly and do not push too far.
6. Continue doing these steps for a few encounters at least. When your partner has become comfortable with the idea, they will relax, making it easier for you to relax the muscles in the anus, which will make anal sex easier.
7. Get to the point where his/her anus is relaxed enough for penetration, and start slowly. Allow the receiver to be in a position to control how far the penis is pushed, and slowly insert.

Tips & Warnings

• Use a condom and a water-based lubricant to ensure comfort.
• Try massaging the vagina or performing cunnilingus while massaging the anus. This will provide a pleasurable and familiar sensation that may help with relaxation.
• Anal sex carries risks of sexually transmitted diseases, so use protection.
• Use a water-based lubricant because Vaseline or petroleum-based lubricants increase the risk of breaking the condom.