Things You'll Need:
- Water-based lubricant
- Condoms
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Step 1
Discuss the topic of anal sex with your partner, making sure to clear up any questions either side may have. Being open with each other will help convince your partner to try it.
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Step 2
Wash the anus and surrounding area. You must make sure this area is as clean as possible before penetration. Wash the penis as well, just as thoroughly.
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Step 3
Massage the anus and surrounding area. The anus will contract when you first touch it, preventing entry. You need to get the anal muscles to relax prior to any insertion.
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Step 4
Lubricate the anus with a water-based lubricant or saliva. Gently massage the anal ring with light circular strokes. Push gently in on the anal ring, but do not penetrate the anus. Continue doing this, and you will feel the muscles relax and the anus open up.
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Step 5
Start inserting the tip of a lubricated finger into the anus when it is relaxed. Do not move your finger around, just push it in slowly and do not push too far.
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Step 6
Continue doing these steps for a few encounters at least. When your partner has become comfortable with the idea, they will relax, making it easier for you to relax the muscles in the anus, which will make anal sex easier.
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Step 7
Get to the point where his/her anus is relaxed enough for penetration, and start slowly. Allow the receiver to be in a position to control how far the penis is pushed, and slowly insert.










Comments
rillow said
on 7/14/2009 This guide sucks just stick it in her pooper
ecm1980 said
on 6/13/2009 Very informative and well written.