How to Experiment with Anal Sex

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Anal sex can be pleasurable for both partners, provided that proper precautions are taken and both of you are into enjoying the experience. Here's how to experiment safely with anal sex.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

Anal Vibrator (optional)
Lubricant
Condoms

Step 1

Empty your bowels before you begin. You may also want to take a shower.
Step 2

Use a condom and lots of lubricant.
Step 3

Use the fingers or an anal vibrator to loosen up the sphincter muscles.
Step 4

Insert the penis just into the opening of the anus, moving very slowly and carefully.
Step 5

Make sure your partner is comfortable.
Step 6

Continue to push past the sphincter muscles, using more lube if necessary. Go slowly at first, until your partner gets used to the feeling.
Step 7

Gently begin the push/pull motions of intercourse.

Tips & Warnings

Always check with your partner to make sure he or she is comfortable and not in pain.
Go slowly until your partner begins to enjoy the experience.
Stop immediately if your partner experiences extreme pain or starts bleeding.
Never switch from anal to vaginal sex without changing condoms; infection could result.

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