on 3/3/2008
I think the first comment is right. You just have to be confident and be yourself. If we become this person that we know they would fall for, we end up being out of the picture, knowing that he fell for that person that you created but not the real you. It's kinda icky if a guy sees you on your awkward moments but life is a gift. If you dont win atleast you gain experience. I'm kinda clumsy and stuff, so if a find a guy who will like me besides my ****oos, I know he wont have a problem accepting the easy parts..
on 8/26/2007
I think honesty is the most important thing. Also, women who have a certain kind of passion for something, whether it's saving the world or even something like writing poetry in her spare time... This stuff matters and means the world to a guy too.
on 5/29/2007
There are many men who will love you WITHOUT you needing to play games with them. If you are looking for someone you can be happy with for a long time, you can "make" him fall in love with you by being your best self and continuing to make every effort to become better and better. Show him that you are confident in your worth (Like Step 1 says!), but also determined to continue becoming a better, kinder, more generous and loving person all the time. This works for good men, so I'd try it if you are seeking a really good, nice man. If you are looking for a more thrilling, dramatic relationship, then games will work fine for you.
Remember, the means never justify the end...the means define what sort of end you will get. Try to trick a man into falling in love with you by keeping him off-balance all the time, and you will get a much less balanced and happy relationship.
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zenbugs said
on 3/3/2008 I think the first comment is right. You just have to be confident and be yourself. If we become this person that we know they would fall for, we end up being out of the picture, knowing that he fell for that person that you created but not the real you. It's kinda icky if a guy sees you on your awkward moments but life is a gift. If you dont win atleast you gain experience. I'm kinda clumsy and stuff, so if a find a guy who will like me besides my ****oos, I know he wont have a problem accepting the easy parts..
Lousson said
on 8/26/2007 I think honesty is the most important thing. Also, women who have a certain kind of passion for something, whether it's saving the world or even something like writing poetry in her spare time... This stuff matters and means the world to a guy too.
WeeSandy said
on 5/29/2007 There are many men who will love you WITHOUT you needing to play games with them. If you are looking for someone you can be happy with for a long time, you can "make" him fall in love with you by being your best self and continuing to make every effort to become better and better. Show him that you are confident in your worth (Like Step 1 says!), but also determined to continue becoming a better, kinder, more generous and loving person all the time. This works for good men, so I'd try it if you are seeking a really good, nice man. If you are looking for a more thrilling, dramatic relationship, then games will work fine for you.
Remember, the means never justify the end...the means define what sort of end you will get. Try to trick a man into falling in love with you by keeping him off-balance all the time, and you will get a much less balanced and happy relationship.