How to Attract A Mate Using The Law Of Attraction

So, you’re ready for that “perfect person” to show up in your life. How can you use the Law of Attraction, or LOA, to do that? (For a brief introduction on LOA and how it works, read “A Basic Understanding of the Law of Attraction.” : http://antoniothornton.com/law-of-attraction/article-law-of-attraction-a-basic-understanding)

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• An open mind and patience

1. Well, you can’t manipulate, cajole or otherwise entreat that “perfect person” to show up any more than you could get Tammy or Billy from the fifth grade to kiss you on a dare. You’re all grown up and guess what? LOA STILL won’t allow you to do that.
   
   You can manipulate circumstances so that someone comes into your life, sure, but LOA (which ALWAYS works) will see to it that the person is a perfect match to control and manipulate on some level. If anything happens, it will be because you forced the issue and LOA responded to that force. That means that, on some level, it’s a contrived and maybe even “fake” relationship.
2. Now, maybe this will work out anyway. You might relax into the relationship and start truly enjoying each other so the relationship becomes authentic. But I promise that you won’t be able to continue to control and manipulate if you want a loving, healthy relationship that will last.
   
   However, you can use LOA to attract the right person to you when you’re ready instead of “trying” so hard. This is not only much easier, but much more honest and authentic. How do you do that?
   
   By relaxing and allowing.
   
   These are LOA’s two main components, if you want to use it to its fullest and most positive power. Relax and Allow.
   
   “Huh?” you say. “But no, I have to ATTRACT my mate! That takes work!”
   
   Surprise. It’s by working hardest that you’ll often keep that perfect person from coming to you.
   
   Remember that LOA responds to feelings first and foremost, whether you want it to or not. If you’re pushing hard to find someone because you fear being alone, for example, LOA will respond to that by bringing you a perfect match to your fear (if you attract anyone). Maybe you’ll attract more aloneness or a mate who will leave you, for instance.
   
   Now, think about this for a minute and I bet it will make sense. You want “real” love with your mate, right? So what is real love?
3. Is it pretending to be someone you’re not? Is it working hard to try to “catch” someone (now there’s an analogy - do you really want to be “caught” like a fish on a hook? How painful!)? Is it working to try to control someone else to make them who YOU want him or her to be? Is it allowing yourself to be controlled by your mate so you’ll make your mate “happy”?
   
   Or does “real love” mean relaxing, being yourself and allowing someone to come to you who’s a perfect match to you just as you are? Where you can each be yourselves? Where you love each other unconditionally, faults and all? Where neither tries to control or otherwise manipulate the other?
4. So, to use LOA to attract your perfect mate, relax and allow. Get your own ducks in a row emotionally. Create a life where you’re happy alone, where you honor and value yourself and everyone else in your life. Where no one tries to “control” anyone else.
   
   Then, focus on what you want in your mate from this place you’ve created that’s “already perfect.” How will you feel when he or she arrives? By doing so, you will create the energy and ability to “invite” your perfect mate in -- when he or she is ready to come to you.

Tips & Warnings

• Don’t force it. Don’t try to manipulate people or situations Remember to Relax Once you ask, then allow (be patient)