Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
- Candles / A Sparkling Clean Body and an Equally Clean Bed.
- First get it in your head that pleasing her is the invitation for her to please you. Go slowly as the more tension you create, the more thrilled she will become.
Step1
Kissing ... don't expect breath spray or gum to hide a funky mouth. Nothing starts the pleasure rolling like a clean mouth. Be delicate as if your lips and tongue were a paintbrush and you are painting a tiny flower instead of a Barn. The same goes for kissing her neck or ears. Do NOT leave a mark unless told to and do not use your teeth until much much later. Tracing her teeth or running your tongue between her upper lip and teeth is perfect. Tracing the line from her jaw to her ear rocks as well but do NOT stick your tongue in her ear as this only creeps her out. To moan softy or to whisper something romantic / simple "You feel so good" is fine or to take her ear lob gently in your lips (NOT teeth) is brilliant as well. Kissing her from behind can be perfect as well but do NOT press against her or thrust at her. She knows you are there so less is ALWAYS more. Kissing the back of her neck softly will either thrill her beyond words or tickle her so pay attention to her body language. Her shoulders and spine lead to her lower back and her tush so pay attention.
Step2
As you kiss her body stay slow. Kissing or touching her body gently through her clothes is very exciting to her. She knows you love her breasts so stay slow even kissing through her bra first. If bra's baffle you, practise in private. There is nothing cooler than knowing your way around a bra and nothing sadder than fighting it. Again kiss down her neck and bite with lips only. The hollow of her neck deserves attention too. Once to her exposed breasts kiss soft and slow. Next use your tongue lightly as you circle the entire nipple. Flicking your tongue is a skill you will use later so master it. Try forming your mouth into an "O" shape and surround the nipple without touching it. Then draw air into your mouth over her wet nipple. When you suck be VERY careful, the same goes for touching the nipple with your hands. If you are being too gentler she will tell you. Go rough means go home.
Step3
Use all of the above as you move south from her breasts. Lips not teeth over her belly and slow is best. Before moving between her legs be sure to kiss her mound. A palm of hand pressed gently on her pubic bone and small circles while pressing rocks too. If she is still dressed kiss her just as you did her breasts before they were exposed. If only in panties do not remove them as soon as you get between her legs. Slide your hands under her bottom and move your mouth right to center but do not touch her yet. She knows you are there and just as you did near her ears a sweet word or two can make her feel wonderful. "God you are beautiful" is just fine. Use your lips as a brush here and trace the outline of her sex. A note to beginners ...
fall in love with her smell and taste as unless you do you will never be a great or even good lover. The more you love her taste and essence the more she will get into all your parts as well. Enthusiasm by you will lead to the same from her. There is nothing worse than lovers who do things to each other because they feel they have to. When you have slowly traced her through her panties, remove them SLOWLY. Here again your words can thrill her as you see her exposed. Many women are self conscious about their sex so be proactive and make them feel beautiful with your words and actions. Think of her sex as a clock and start at 10 and work backwards with your tongue as gently as you can. Do NOT enter her or touch 11 or 12 o'clock. Using just the tip of your tongue slip a tiny bit inside her. Slower and slower begin to enter and withdraw. With your hands you can GENTLY massage her bottom but her less is ALWAYS more. Once you are able to get all of your tongue within her stop moving and let her move or both of you can just stop for a second. She is in heaven so do not feel you must move to please her. You can now use just the tip of your finger to replace your tongue inside her but do NOT thrust it in. Enter her slowly and trace her insides in a circle around instead of thrusting. She will teach you by her hip movements and her sounds. Remember you can never go too slow but you can hurt her or turn her off by going too fast or deep. Using the clock idea, you will find her G-Spot in and up (behind 12'Oclock. Slow and circular and know that it is gentle pressure on her spot that will please her NOT poking it or rubbing it harder. These lessons are EXACTLY the same for her ****oris. It is almost never to be touched directly EVER!
Step4
Part 4 is just like parts 3,2 and 1 but I will tell you that her on top allows her to control things as well as allowing your parts to hit her parts just right. Let her lead as she will tell you what she wants. Follow her lead and be ready to let go if she does. Rarely will she want to be the loudest or most intense of the two of you. Unless you are in her parents house there is no shame in sounding like a beast as you finish.
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Comments
gildon said
on 1/11/2007 I used to be so excited during sex and would be too rough. My first few girlfriends didn't mind or they were just being too nice. Since I've learned to take things slowly I enjoy sex much more then ever.