Things You'll Need:
- gifts
- candy
- flowers
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Step 1
Play it cool. Act like you are okay with her decision to leave. Don't behave like a pathetic, blubbering mess of desperation. Be the person she wants to be with.
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Step 2
Live your life. When she sees that the grass is greener on your side of the fence, she will want to return to you.
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Step 3
Ignore her, but not completely. Don't answer the phone on the first ring if she calls, and try to seem like you are busy if she suggests meeting. Don't let on if you are moping around the house for her to love you again.
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Step 4
See other people. Jealousy is a powerful emotion. Once she sees you with other girls, she may start feeling territorial.
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Step 5
If you run into her at a party, act casual. Smile a lot (but don't seem smug). Make her laugh. Remind her of the person she used to want to be with. Don't act like an ex. Act like an old flame she never should have left.
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Step 6
Woo her--that is, if the casual act isn't speeding things along quickly and you've already made some headway. If you know she's a sucker for romance, wait until the time is right and begin showering her with gifts and attention. Be creative, not clingy. Only begin Operation Woo Her Back once you have your foot in the door. Don't go straight from violent breakup to guitar strumming outside her window.
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Step 7
Maintain contact with your mutual friends. That way, when she asks them, "How is
doing?" they'll be able to say, "Oh, he's great. We hang out sometimes, and he's tons of fun. Why did you ever leave him?"
Comments
coscanchonchon said
on 10/19/2009 I just broke up with my girlfriend and the reason for it was because she said that she needed some time apart as well as that she was to attached to me since we spent so much time together anyways.She says she loved me but not so much anymore not as much as before what is the reason for that? how can I get her back? I know it was meant to be but she doesn't understand that shes the best thing to happen to me and she says that I am the best thing that happened to her.
coscanchonchon said
on 10/19/2009 I just broke up with my girlfriend and the reason for it was because she said that she needed some time apart as well as that she was to attached to me since we spent so much time together anyways.She says she loved me but not so much anymore not as much as before what is the reason for that? how can I get her back? I know it was meant to be but she doesn't understand that shes the best thing to happen to me and she says that I am the best thing that happened to her.
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ginjaboy said
on 9/15/2009 Last summer I met a girl who was a friend of my older brother. She said I was cute and I though she was hot. We hanged out and hooked up all summer long, but now I'm at a college on the other side of the state and I miss her so much it hurts more than anything. She told me online we should just be friends, but I love her too much to be just a friend. I am coming back home to visit in a month (near the college she attends) and I want to start the romance we once had. Please help me.
whatup012345 said
on 8/4/2009 I need some help. My girlfriend just last week said she loved me more than anyone she has ever loved in her life. But now she has gotten mad at me the last two days for some stupid reasons. When i asked one of her friends if she still liked me she said kinda. What can i do to make her love me again?