How to Build Self-Esteem in Kids

Self-esteem is the most important aspect of life. Self-esteem can determine success, attitude and ambition and all of these can be positive if self-esteem is built early on in a person’s life. It is actually quite easy to build self-esteem in kids and lead your child to a happy and successful life.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Children

1. Give positive and truthful advice. Instead of saying “Try harder,” or “Calm down,” say “I’m proud of the effort you put forth,” and “I’d appreciate it if you didn’t yell.”

2. Become a positive role model. Keep your own self-esteem in mind, if you are hard on yourself, your child will model after you.

3. Identify your child’s beliefs and redirect them. Help your child set goals that are right for them, don’t let them try so hard for something that is not possible to achieve.

4. Surprise your child with affection. Hug your child often and leave notes telling how proud you are of you child in lunches or school bags.

5. Make your home a safe haven. Let your child be comfortable coming to you with problems while letting them be independent with their own space.

6. Encourage your child to become involved in constructive experiences. An older child that teaches a younger child is a great experience for both children.

Tips & Warnings

• Let your child be somewhat independent. Respect their personal belongings and don’t pry into their lives.
• Do not over exaggerate affection. A child can sense when something is from the heart.
• Don’t fight in front of your child.
• Don’t abuse or let your child witness abuse.
• Don’t force your child into competitive sports.