All you need to locate that wonderful person who is all and more than you have dreamt of is patience, focus, determination and a bit of wisdom.
Step1
Locate a dating/adult dating site that promotes safety, "G" rated fun and integrity.
Step2
Join the site and post your profile and photos for FREE.
Step3
Browse to your hearts content.
When you locate a possible candidate (candy date) pay your membership and email them to get to know them a bit more. Discover and tell each other what you like and dislike (and please be honest).
Step4
When you locate someone that you decide is worth meeting arrange to meet in a public place, out in the open - a cafe, a restuarant.
Should everything be good continue to meet in a public place the next two times before taking the relationship up a level.
Tips & Warnings
People who treat you with respect and care and who honour you are worth getting to know - they do exist.
People who are open to sharing their life with yours are worth getting to know.
People who genuinely hurt when they are not with you are worth getting to know.
People who value you, your time, your efforts, your mind, your heart are worth getting to know.
Some of these people can be found at http://www.Adult-Dating-with-the-Net.com - Your "G" rated way to date.
Unfortunatly there are people who do not meet the above conditions. This is where wisdom comes in. Generally speaking, if you are not convinced - walk away.
So all the very best to you. May all you hope for be there with you very soon.