A comfortable location (A home is better than an hall)
Friends & Family
Step1
Select a Date
Six weeks prior to delivery.
Step2
Select hostess
Remember these are the ladies that will be picking up the tab and planning the event. Make sure they are willing participants and not cheap.
Step3
Do Baby Registry
Register at one location. People usually buy what they like for baby showers. Pick a baby superstore that has everything like Babies'R'Us.
Step4
Prepare Guest List
Give to one of your hostess. Invitations should be mailed out four weeks prior.
Step5
Share your Ideas
Be sure to let them know what you are envisioning but not in a demanding manner. You do not want to be deemed a momzilla.
Step6
Must Have...Real Tablecloths
No paper or plastic. To keep down the cost visit a fabric store and cut and make your self.
Step7
Must Have...Fresh Flowers
This will help decorate the room and add a beautiful scent. For your hostess you should purchase corsages. You could also purchase them for honored guess as well. i.e. Grandparents and Godparents.
Step8
Must Have...Diaper Raffle
This information should be included on the invitation. Have your guest bring a package of diapers any size and they will be entered in the mother's grand prize drawing. For every package they bring they receive a raffle ticket. For my grand prize drawing I brought a portable DVD player in exchange I did not have to buy diapers until my daughter was ONE year old.
Step9
Colors
Do something different. Stir clear off pastels (it’s redundant) - unless that is what you really like. Instead off pastel pink I had magenta and gold.
Step10
Games
Use games that are personalized to you. i.e. What was the mother wearing, Facts about mom and dad. If you have a large shower avoid games that have to be performed one person at a time.