How to Stop Your Puppy From Biting

Tamar Geller, best-selling author, founder of The Loved Dog method and dog trainer to the stars explains how you can train your dog to stop chewing. (Photo: Chris Amaral/Digital Vision/Getty Images)
Tamar Geller, best-selling author, founder of The Loved Dog method and dog trainer to the stars explains how you can train your dog to stop chewing.(photo: Chris Amaral/Digital Vision/Getty Images)

Tamar Geller’s client list reads like a daily email blast from Nikki Finke’s Deadline Hollywood blog, including names like Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, Goldie Hawn, Natalie Portman, Owen Wilson, Larry King and Ben Affleck. But Geller is much more than a dog coach to the stars. Geller, a native of Israel and former intelligence officer who worked with the elite Israeli army special forces, is a best-selling author and founder of The Loved Dog method, a playful and nonaggressive approach to canine coaching.

Geller says she believes people have been fighting an uphill battle against old, misguided methods of dog training -- philosophies that encourage brusque submission training and the use of fear as the main tools to affect behavior changes. People using fear-based dog training methods, Geller said, simply are combating the symptoms of their dog’s issues, not the causes.

“When you try to shut down the symptom, it shuts it down for a little bit and then when it does erupt, it erupts worse,” Geller said.

As founder of several nonprofits including Operation Heroes & Hounds, which pairs injured U.S. military veterans with shelter dogs, and as the resident dog expert on NBC’s "The Today Show," Geller is finding many ways to convey her philosophy to pet owners. She shares with eHow.com her recommendations for stopping a common puppy problem: biting.

eHow: With biting, is there a certain breed or class of dog that excessively bites, or is it simply a puppy thing?

Tamar Geller: See, the word biting is very confusing to me. Because to me, when I hear the word “bite” I hear injury.

eHow: Oh, OK. So the proper word should be “chewing.”

T.G.: Yes, chewing. I separate between “chewing” and also “nipping.” The word biting is like, “My God, how many stitches did you get. [Clients] will look at me [and ask], “What stitches?” [I reply], “Well your dog bit you.”

eHow: Gotcha.

T.G.: The funny thing -- to want a puppy not to chew is like wanting the sun not to rise. It’s like, “Really? Really?”

So you don’t fight the sun. And that’s kind of like the way we look at chewing. We’ve got to remember that dogs are hard-wired to be dogs, meaning to behave on the instincts that are built in, like factory built-in instincts. This is not a choice that they make. These are the instincts. You know, to pass the time they will not pick up a book. It’s what they do to pass the time, is to chew: when they are bored, when they’re stressed. That’s what they do. We have other ways: We can go and grab a beer; we can have a conversation. They don’t. They can either play, dig, chew, or bark or sleep.

Instead of looking at it as the enemy, we have to look at (chewing) as part of the healthy developmental stages that every dog has to go through. I can tell you a lot of parents would love to give their children something to chew on to keep them busy and get a break from them. Chewing is our friend.

What we do though, is we have to teach a dog how not to behave only based on their instincts, but also to learn how to make conscious choices. This is what dog coaching is about, or parenting, whether it is a kid, two-legged, or a dog. We coach them not to behave just on their instincts, but we find as parents of dog owners, different vehicles to meet that core, built-in natural instinct. So first we’ve got to get rid of (the idea) that it is wrong. It’s not wrong. It’s normal. It’s part of life.

One thing is, in order to stop chewing -- we can’t stop the chewing, we discussed that already -- we need to redirect it where we give the dog a lot of chew toys. I divide them into three categories: gold, silver and bronze (which indicates) chew toys that are OK, chew toys that are better and chew toys that are the best. Dogs will get those chew toys -- the best -- when you leave the house. So I’m not only going to get the dog focused on chewing the right things, I also want to help prevent separation anxiety.

We use chewing to help with separation anxiety. How do I do it?

I love to get from the butcher raw soup bone, marrow bone -- but it’s got to be raw -- and you leave it with the dog, but not to let the dog have it. If your dog knows how to stay, that’s great; if not, then you leave it on the floor right before you leave the house. If the dog does not leave the house, put the marrow bone not on the rug but in the kitchen floor or anyplace you have tile or outside. But you tell the dog to “stay,” and only as you're closing the door you let them have it. Or, put in the dog’s crate if they’re a puppy and they're still being housebroken, for them to chew on.

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