How to Keep Your Sanity While Planning a Wedding

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Don't try to plan your entire wedding alone. You won't be worth much on your wedding day if you're too frazzled and exhausted to enjoy it.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

Step1
Set realistic goals. You can't organize a formal wedding with 300 guests in two weeks.
Step2
Delegate. Let your mom, mother-in-law-to-be and bridesmaids, as well as your fiancé, handle some of the grunt work. Not only will you take some of the burden off yourself, but you'll also let others get involved and let them know that their opinions are valued. This effort is good for relationships.
Step3
Consider hiring a wedding consultant. They know what's what and who's who.
Step4
Make checklists for everything. Keep your plans organized.
Step5
Make time for yourself. At least once a week, do something just for you - take a bike ride, get a massage or manicure or hide in the tub with a paperback that has nothing to do with weddings.

Tips & Warnings

  • Stay within your budget. Spending more than you planned will just create more stress.
  • Keep your fiancé involved. It's his wedding too, and you don't want the additional headache of finding out a month before the wedding that he doesn't want to wear the cowboy hat you chose to match your dress.

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on 11/22/2005 Aside from all the planning, remember why you are getting married. Don't let the stress of the wedding and the planning come between you and your groom. The love you have for each other is what you are celebrating. So remember to plan private and romantic time with the man you love.

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