How to Understand the Legal Ramifications of Artificial Insemination

By eHow Parenting Editor

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Donor insemination has become increasingly common for both heterosexual and lesbian couples, and it's one of the most common ways for a lesbian couple to have a child of their own. Along with other considerations, any couple seeking artificial insemination should be aware of the legal issues surrounding it.

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Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

Doctor
Sperm bank

Step1

Maintain your privacy by opting for donor insemination. Unlike with adoption, no social worker or agency will become involved in your affairs.

Step2

Understand that in most states, the sperm donor will have no legal rights or obligations to the child, provided the insemination is conducted by a physician. Consult an attorney in your state for further information.

Step3

Decide between an anonymous and known sperm donor for your child. The implications of each choice are described in the following steps.

Step4

Select an anonymous donor and enlist the services of a sperm bank to eliminate the possibility of the donor asserting himself as the legal father of your child.

Step5

Use a known donor's sperm, realizing that the donor could then be considered the father of the child. To guard against this, select a friend or acquaintance and obtain written proof that he waives all parental rights. The absence of such written proof can allow the donor to change his mind in the future and possibly seek custody.

Step6

Have a friend select the donor of his or her choosing, as an alternative. Your friend will act as an intermediary, while you and the donor remain anonymous to each other.

Tips & Warnings

If you're a lesbian, expect to shop around for a doctor who is willing to perform the insemination procedure. Many doctors are unwilling to inseminate an unmarried woman.
Some sperm banks provide donors with the option to be contacted once their offspring reaches the age of 18. Inquire specifically beforehand if this concerns you.
This information is not intended as a substitute for professional legal counsel. Refer to legal references and consult an attorney for up-to-date, comprehensive guidance.