How to Choose a Bar or Bat Mitzvah Gift for a Member of Your Congregation

When a young member of your congregation celebrates a bar or bat mitzvah, you will probably want to give him or her a gift. There are many different possibilities, depending on your closeness to the child and the amount you wish to spend.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Gift Ribbons
• Tissue Paper
• Gift Cards
• Journal
• Gift Bags
• Gift Bows
• Wrapping Paper
• Kiddish Cups
• Savings Bonds
• Fountain Pens
• Tissue paper

1. Think about a gift with some spiritual importance. This could be a book of Jewish history or philosophy, or an item that the child will be able to use regularly as part of his or her religious life.

2. Consider a gift with educational significance, such as a special pen and pencil set or a leather-bound journal.

3. Give a gift of money if you're not sure what else to give. The amount of your gift will depend on your closeness to the family in question. If you prefer not to give cash, you could purchase a savings bond instead.

4. Consult the child's parents or talk to your rabbi if you're not sure whether the gift you plan to buy will be appropriate. The adults may give you some insight into the child's general taste and favorite activities.

5. Remember to include a congratulatory card or note with the gift.

on 1/5/2006 For girls: Jewelry is a really nice gift that will last a long time.
The point is to get a gift that will last them a long time.