How to Support Your Gay Son or Daughter

When your gay or lesbian child comes out to you, be careful not to let your own feelings overshadow his or her need for support.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

1. Listen to your child and keep your emotions in check.
2. Remember that coming out is harder on your child than it is on you.
3. Let your child know that you still love him or her unconditionally.
4. Tell your child that you need time to digest this information.
5. Ask your child questions, if you are prepared to hear the answers.
6. Keep in close touch with your son or daughter so that he or she won't feel isolated.

Tips & Warnings

• Remember that your child is still the same person he or she was before sharing this news with you.