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Step 1
Make a list of all your possessions that have significant monetary or sentimental value. It's a good idea to do this with your partner.
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Step 2
Divide the items into three sections: those that belong to you, those that belong to your partner, and those that you own together.
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Step 3
Decide what will happen to all the items if one or both of you should die.
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Step 4
Specify who you want to take care of your children and pets, if you have any.
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Step 5
Think about who you want to name as your decision-maker. This person may have to make health and financial decisions for you, as well as ensure that your wishes are carried out after you die. It can be anyone - your partner, a family member, or a friend. Also designate an alternate, just in case.
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Step 6
Put everything in writing as specifically as possible.
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Step 7
Take this information to an attorney. Or, if you're up to the challenge, prepare your own documents and get them properly signed and notarized.









