How to Understand Grounds for Divorce

The grounds for a divorce is the legal reason why the divorce should be allowed. Here are some simple steps to understand the procedure.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Understand that each state has different laws about divorce. You should check the laws of your state yourself or talk to an attorney to learn what the allowable grounds are in your state.
2. Know that some states allow divorce based simply on irreconcilable differences. The spouses don't have to give anymore reason than that.
3. Realize that in other states it isn't so simple.
4. Being abandoned by your spouse is a common reason for divorce in some states. There is usually some requirement as to how long ago it must have happened before you can file for divorce.
5. Check to see whether imprisonment is a grounds for divorce in your state. In some states, if your spouse is in prison for a certain length of time during the marriage you can get a divorce.
6. Consider the way your spouse treats you. Many states allow divorce if there is cruel and inhuman treatment of one spouse by the other.
7. Separating legally can also give a reason for a divorce. Most states have a requirement that you be legally separated for a certain period of time before you can divorce using the separation as a reason.
8. Think about adultery as a possible grounds for divorce. Adultery occurs when one spouse has sexual intercourse with another person during the marriage. Most states require a lot of proof if adultery is to be used as a grounds. This method can often be unpleasant and very confrontational.

Tips & Warnings

• Choose the grounds that applies to your situation and is legal in your state.