Brainstorm reasons why you adore your valentine. Write them down, and include specific memories, past adventures or vacations, images he or she evokes, inside jokes, favorite songs, movies, restaurants.
Step2
Flip through photographs, your journal if you keep one, old letters or e-mails you've kept for additional memories, images or thoughts, and add them to your list.
Step3
Read over your notes, and decide how you might best present these reflections of your amour.
Step4
Consider creating a collage that evokes images of some of your musings. On a blank card or folded piece of posterboard, glue a shell, stone or leaf you found on that first weekend getaway together. Add a photograph of the two of you taken at your friend's birthday party and some perfume.
Step5
Say it in a poem - on a blank card or piece of paper, let your thoughts flow freely across the paper. Start with the date, February 14, followed by your lover's name.
Step6
Make your lover a list: 100 Reasons Why I Love You. Number them. Be creative and extremely detailed. People love reading about themselves, especially when the observations are coming from a lover.
Step7
Discard the traditional card idea, and use body paint (or a marker if your lover is game) and pen your love directly on your valentine's body. As you write, whisper the words. Later, trace the ones he or she would like to hear again with your fingers.
on 2/1/2008
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JudyFord said
on 2/1/2008 Get ideas and advice by chatting with me and the other experts in the forums: http://www.ehow.com/community/forums/topic_33827_valentine’s-day:-in-love?-broken-hearted?-alone?-how-do-you-deal?.aspx.