How to Become a Catholic Nun

The job description calls for chastity, poverty and obedience, and
apparently that's not everyone's cup of tea. In the past 30 years, the
number of Catholic nuns in the United States has fallen by about
100,000. But if you're seeking spiritual commitment and the opportunity
to provide service to the community, you might be one to boost
the numbers.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Be Catholic or convert to Catholicism. Talk to your priest about the steps involved.

2. Do not get married--or divorced. Married women can't become nuns, and the Church frowns on divorce. You may apply if you're a widow, though.

3. Get a college degree. Many religious communities like applicants to have at least a bachelor's degree before they take their vows. See 149 Decide Which College Is Right for You.

4. Find an order, or a religious community, that suits your beliefs and personality. For instance, do you want to be out in the community or do you prefer a cloistered life? (Technically, if you're out in the world you're a sister, and if you're cloistered you're a nun.) A priest or nun at your church usually can point you in the right direction, or check out ReligiousMinistries.com.

5. Look for an order whose work interests you. You'll find everything from beekeeping and winemaking to teaching and family counseling. Benedictine sisters, for instance, work in education and service ministries, whereas Cistercian nuns are devoted to prayer and contemplation. You don't need to be quiet and passive to be a nun--some are antiwar protesters and others lead the fight against AIDS in Third World countries.

6. Contact the vocation director at the community you choose. Spend some time there and ask plenty of questions.

7. Move in for a year or two while you're still studying or working outside if that's an option. This period of residency will give you a good feel for the everyday life of the order you're considering.

8. Go through the novitiate, or training period, which may last another year or two. You'll spend your time studying, praying and deciding whether you really want to become a nun.

9. Take temporary vows of poverty, celibacy and obedience. Depending on the community, these vows may last from one to nine years.

10. Take your final vows. If you made good on your temporary vows, you're ready for the religious life.

Tips & Warnings

• Many nuns don't receive compensation. Nuns who are doctors or social workers, for instance, are paid wages, which support the work of their religious community.
• Christianity isn't the only religion with nuns. Many Buddhist women take lifelong vows of simplicity and service.

[ruchikaa23]

on 5/26/2009 i am 25yrs and seriously considering becoming a Nun. I dont know what it is but something pulls me to live my life devoted to God. It's the most confusing thing I will ever come across, though I feel this need to follow my faith I still have this strong desire to become a mother and wife. Maybe 25 is just a bit too young? I pray God will show me the right path.

[bookworm1800]

on 5/3/2009 Bogopo: Let me note that I'm speaking from the position of an amateur on matters of ordination, etc., but from what I know about the church's position on divorce, you may not be totally barred from becoming a nun. Technically, divorce is not what isolates someone from the church; adultery does. If you are divorced and remarry, date, or have sexual relationships with other people, you commit adultery because in the eyes of the church, you are still married to your [ex]husband/[ex]wife. However, if you are divorced yet live a chaste life, you are still considered as living in communion with the church. The church recognizes that some married people cannot (or should not) live together; however, because these people have made unbreakable vows before God and their community, they cannot dissolve their union. The church recommends that in such cases, the couple should separate and b...

[lizkiss]

on 4/11/2009 I am 18 and seriously considering becoming a Nun. I dont know what it is but something pulls me to live my life devoted to God. I have not been the perfect person in my life and I have sinned but I am willing to give up my life for this. It's the most confusing thing I will ever come across, though I feel this need to follow my faith I still have this strong desire to become a mother and wife. Maybe 18 is just a bit too young? I pray God will show me the right path.

[lizkiss]

on 4/11/2009 I am 18 and seriously considering becoming a Nun. I dont know what it is but something pulls me to live my life devoted to God. I have not been the perfect person in my life and I have sinned but I am willing to give up my life for this. It's the most confusing thing I will ever come across, though I feel this need to follow my faith I still have this strong desire to become a mother and wife. Maybe 18 is just a bit too young? I pray God will show me the right path.

[Walkaboutangel]

on 1/26/2009 Godspeed

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