By
eHow Careers & Work Editor
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
Step1
Stay in touch with people you like and respect even if they can't help you immediately. You don't want to go to someone only when you are desperate.
Step2
Talk to people you don't know everywhere you go. Cocktail parties and weddings are just the tip of the iceberg; don't forget about airplane rides, supermarket lines, sporting events, festivals, bookstores and so on.
Step3
Learn to ask "What do you do?" with comfort, sincerity and interest.
Step4
Become a better listener. Ask a question and then be quiet until you hear the answer.
Step5
Practice your own presentaton of your skills. Learn more than one approach, whether frank or subtle.
Step6
Keep a great updated brochure, business card or other form of information about yourself on you at all times. Get comfortable handing out your card.
Step7
Take classes to improve your public speaking, body language and writing skills.
Step8
Join every networking club and association in your field.
Step9
Follow up on any lead, no matter how minor.
Comments
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Anonymous said
on 6/30/2006 Networking is just that -- a network, not just 1:1 relationships. So be aware that you may need to get to a person you don't know via someone new who you get to meet.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 In the first few moments of any encounter, you are emitting millions of non-verbal subconscious signals to the other person, and their subconscious is also picking it up. So, don't worry too much about what you say. It can be mundane, regular stuff. You don't have to dazzle them with your brilliance, charm, and wit in the first few seconds. Focus on maintaining a positive demeanor, being sincere, and listening.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 ...regardless of who you're currently working with. These same co-workers could be a valuable lifeline later.
Anonymous said
on 11/22/2005 If you know the person you are networking with well, then one of the best places to meet is in a social environment such as a bar or restaurant. People are a lot more willing to agree to help when they feel relaxed.