How to Be a Good Baby Sitter

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Baby-sitting, for some, is the first job in a lifetime of employment. Learn some basic skills to land and keep a baby-sitting job - skills that may carry over into your job-seeking future.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Book Bags
  • Paper And Pencils
  • Board Games
  • Outdoor Games

Step1
Arrive a few minutes early. Fill out the emergency information sheet and ask any questions before the parents have to leave. If the parent is picking you up, fill out as much of the information as possible and ask questions during the ride.
Step2
Ask for emergency information, important phone numbers and directions to the house as soon as you arrive. Bring an emergency checklist just in case the parents don't have one.
Step3
Include the full names of children and parents and any necessary medical information about the children.
Step4
Meet the family dog. If you don't feel comfortable with the dog, ask the parents to put the dog in a room or outside. Your responsibility is children, not animals.
Step5
Walk through the house and do a safety check. Close the doors to rooms you don't want the children in. Look for hazards such as matches, hanging electrical cords, medications or other things children can get hurt with.
Step6
Look for a pool. If there is a pool, make sure the doors, windows and doggie door is locked securely. Also, check for life preserver rings and other safety rescue devices to use in case a child does fall into the pool.
Step7
Follow the routines the parents set up for you. Chances are they are routines the children are familiar with. When children have clear and consistent expectations, behavior problems are minimal.
Step8
Interact with the children. When you are playing with the children, you will have them in your sight, and they will be too busy to get hurt or in trouble. Ask the children what they want to do and have fun doing it.

Tips & Warnings

  • Check out Related Sites for a baby sitter's checklist that you can print, or search the Web for one you like.
  • Make a baby-sitting kit to bring with you. Fill it full of fun things to do when time starts to drag or boredom sets in.
  • Make sure you check to see whether the door is locked before you go outside with the children. You don't want to lock yourself out.
  • Don't invite visitors over. It is unprofessional and distracting to your duties.
  • Wait until the children are in bed to do any schoolwork or other activities you bring with you.
  • Don't open the door for strangers. Lock all doors and windows as soon as the parents leave.

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on 9/14/2006 In order to keep certain required events on track (homework, bedtime), you need to make sure that the child knows what's happening and approximately how long. If it looks like you will need to change activities for sure at any point (bed), start persuading the kid at least 6 minutes before you actually want them to start the new activity, as children take longer than adults to begin a new task, even if they are obedient.

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on 8/30/2006 Younger children are often scared of monsters when going go sleep. As suggested in previous tips, bring a babysitting bag with interesting things.

Prepare a spray bottle with water labeled "monster spray".
When the child complains of a monster when they're trying to go to sleep, say "OH! perfect, we can use my monster spray! It works every time!" explain that once you spray, it keeps all the monsters away! Remember, if they're young enough to believe in monsters, they're probably going to believe in the spray. just make sure you're confident and convincing. It has worked several times for me!

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on 8/15/2006 It's always good to have something like a to z rules where it is a certain amount of rules for the kids to follow. It will make it much better for you, but don't make the rules strict or they will start complaining to the parents about you.

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on 8/8/2006 Always expect that bedtime will be at least a little difficult for every child you babysit! No matter how good the child seems, to prevent accidents and mishaps, prepare the child for bed a little early (15 minutes or so). Don't mention bedtime too much to the child, because it usually upsets them. Then you'll have enough time to calm the child down by reading stories or listening to soft music, and he/she will be calmed down, and will be more prepared and accepting of his/her bedtime.
Often, the child becomes upset when its time for bed. She/he misses her/his parent and starts crying or whining, or simply doesn't want to go to bed. In this case, don't act worried or fuss over the child, because it will only upset him/her more. Instead, calmly reassure the child that his/her parents will be home "before you know it" or "any minute now". Even if the parents won't be home until late hours, it relaxes the child to know that their guardian/parents will soon be on their way. Sometimes it helps if you turn on a small night light or leave the bathroom light on for a little while, it might just be that the child is afraid of the dark, but might not want to admit it.

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on 8/8/2006 Don't let the kids get too dirty; such as playing in mud or getting all messy with food!

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