By eHow Relationships & Family Editor
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Baby-sitting, for some, is the first job in a lifetime of employment. Learn some basic skills to land and keep a baby-sitting job - skills that may carry over into your job-seeking future.
eHow Relationships & Family Editor
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Anonymous said
on 9/14/2006 In order to keep certain required events on track (homework, bedtime), you need to make sure that the child knows what's happening and approximately how long. If it looks like you will need to change activities for sure at any point (bed), start persuading the kid at least 6 minutes before you actually want them to start the new activity, as children take longer than adults to begin a new task, even if they are obedient.
Anonymous said
on 8/30/2006 Younger children are often scared of monsters when going go sleep. As suggested in previous tips, bring a babysitting bag with interesting things.
Prepare a spray bottle with water labeled "monster spray".
When the child complains of a monster when they're trying to go to sleep, say "OH! perfect, we can use my monster spray! It works every time!" explain that once you spray, it keeps all the monsters away! Remember, if they're young enough to believe in monsters, they're probably going to believe in the spray. just make sure you're confident and convincing. It has worked several times for me!
Anonymous said
on 8/15/2006 It's always good to have something like a to z rules where it is a certain amount of rules for the kids to follow. It will make it much better for you, but don't make the rules strict or they will start complaining to the parents about you.
Anonymous said
on 8/8/2006 Always expect that bedtime will be at least a little difficult for every child you babysit! No matter how good the child seems, to prevent accidents and mishaps, prepare the child for bed a little early (15 minutes or so). Don't mention bedtime too much to the child, because it usually upsets them. Then you'll have enough time to calm the child down by reading stories or listening to soft music, and he/she will be calmed down, and will be more prepared and accepting of his/her bedtime.
Often, the child becomes upset when its time for bed. She/he misses her/his parent and starts crying or whining, or simply doesn't want to go to bed. In this case, don't act worried or fuss over the child, because it will only upset him/her more. Instead, calmly reassure the child that his/her parents will be home "before you know it" or "any minute now". Even if the parents won't be home until late hours, it relaxes the child to know that their guardian/parents will soon be on their way. Sometimes it helps if you turn on a small night light or leave the bathroom light on for a little while, it might just be that the child is afraid of the dark, but might not want to admit it.
Anonymous said
on 8/8/2006 Don't let the kids get too dirty; such as playing in mud or getting all messy with food!