How to Plan a Vacation for Wildly Different People

Theoretically, you should be able to do what you want on a vacation. But unless you travel alone, vacations always involve compromise. And if you're traveling with people who have dramatically different interests, even more compromise is necessary. Work together to decide the how, when and where of your trip--and a good time will be had by all.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Check out destinations that offer a variety of options and activities within a short walking or driving distance. For example, if one traveler likes the nightlife and another likes to unwind on remote bike trails, choose a location with proximity to both.
2. Set sail on a cruise, especially if you are traveling with people of different ages and physical abilities. Most ships have children's programs, card and game rooms that appeal to less mobile and/or older travelers, stage shows for the whole gang, and all types of food at all hours of the day. See 413 Plan a Cruise.
3. Look into a packaged vacation such as those offered by Club Med (clubmed.com). These are perfect for large, multigenerational family gatherings because everyone gets to do exactly as they please. Hole up with a book on the beach or play tennis dawn to dusk. Dive, sail, swim, golf or do nothing at all. Everything-- booze, towels, entertainment and food--is included.
4. Try to schedule at least one time or meal each day during which you can all gather and catch up. Maybe you've done something the rest of the group might be interested in after all.

Tips & Warnings

• If room sharing is part of the plan, pair early birds or party animals together.
• Stay flexible and be willing to change plans occasionally.
• Check out Club Med's Kids Clubs. Your kids (infants to teens) will receive excellent care and have a ball--and you can have a real vacation. Put them in all day long or for just a few hours, as you wish.
• Purchase trip insurance in the event of last-minute cancellations. Read 440 Get Travel Insurance.