How to Plan a Quinceanera

In many Hispanic traditions, a girl's 15th birthday is celebrated with a gala Quinceanera party. While this deeply religious event which cements the bonds of family and culture once signified that she was eligible to marry, today it means she's ready to date.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Understand that the heart of a Quinceanera is a thanksgiving Mass for the extended family, rich in traditional rites. An elaborate party follows with food and dancing for friends and family.
2. Set a budget. Godparents (padrinos) may help by sponsoring elements of the party--the dress, the band, party favors, the bar, the cake and so on. The guest list, food and level of opulence will all depend on available finances.
3. Choose a venue at least several months ahead of the party, and decide on a menu (see 331 Hire a Caterer). Get your daughter's input when choosing the music (see 335 Hire a Band), or buy a compilation of Quincean~era songs on CD. Order invitations.
4. Buy a full-length, frilly, pastel ball gown for your daughter. She may also receive traditional gifts such as a tiara, bracelet, ring, earrings, a necklace with a cross, a Bible and a rosary. (Shop online at Quinceanera-Boutique.com and others for gift ideas.)
5. Have your daughter select her court from close friends and family. Traditionally seven damas (female attendants) and seven chambelanes (male attendants) are included. The young man who accompanies the celebrant is called the man of honor.

Tips & Warnings

• Rent a banquet hall or hotel ballroom or just set up tables and chairs in an orchard.
• The origins of quincean~eras date back to the arrival of Spaniards in the 1500s in South American when Christianity started blending with Aztec culture. Quincean~eras are popular in Cuba, Mexico, Puerto Rico, Central and South America as well as the United States.
• Godparents are considered special guests whose counsel is important in this time of emotional and spiritual reverence. A special token of appreciation from the guest of honor to her padrinos is appropriate during the reception.