How to Tell Him You Love Him

Telling him "I love you" is an important step in building intimacy in a relationship. It's three words that weigh a lot and says a lot about your commitment to your partner. Therefore you should be absolutely positive you love your partner before you utter that sentence and also be prepared for all possible responses.

Things You'll Need

• Romantic Gifts

Instructions

1. Think about when and where you want to tell him. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell him at the restaurant where you went on your first date, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date.

2. Set the mood and be romantic. Buy him a little romantic gift or something that sets a romantic tone.

3. Look at him directly, take his hand and tell him how positive you feel about him. Give him examples of things about him you really like. Be sincere.

4. Tell him how you feel being with him, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with him.

5. Follow these positive statements with telling him you love him in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you."

Tips & Warnings

• Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for his possible response if you are not sure whether he feels the same way about you. For example, if you are hoping he will say "I love you" in return, what if he doesn't? Decide whether you are ready to be that vulnerable and whether you can handle whatever he may say.

• Go for it if you feel ready to take the risk. Love is risky!

• Try not to drink too much. If you feel you have to drink to tell him, it conveys that you can't be yourself and tell him how you feel. If this is the case, wait until you are ready.

Resources

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