How to Choose a Godparent

A godparent plays a vital role in the religious, moral and spiritual upbringing of the godchild. Don't take this important decision lightly.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Think long and hard about your decision to choose a godparent. The godparent will remain an important figure throughout your child's life, so give the decision adequate thought.

2. Choose someone who holds a religious belief similar to yours. A good portion of the godparent's role is to foster the child's religious upbringing.

3. Make your request before the child is born, if possible. Avoid springing the question, but make a carefully expressed case for your request.

4. Decide whether you will have your child baptized. If so, the godparent should be present for this, and any other relevant religious ceremony.

5. Determine whether you will ask the godparent to act as legal guardian of your child should something happen to you. If so, make sure that you discuss this part of the responsibility immediately with your intended choice.

Tips & Warnings

• Consider a family member, such as a sister or brother. While friends and acquaintances tend to drift apart, chances are high that you will remain in touch with your family for the remainder of your life.

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[jspooner]

on 6/10/2009 I saw a really helpful (and funny) short video on this popnbottles.com the other day about Choosing God parents. http://popnbottles.wordpress.com/2009/06/10/how-to-choose-god-parents/

[harmony28]

on 12/10/2007 How do I get legal guardianship papers for my Daughters Godmother?

on 11/22/2005 If there are no relatives available, consider a friend with the same beliefs. Consider also if this person will be around in the years to come. We have non-relative Godparents for 2 of our kids. These are people we do not want to fade out of our lives.