How to Help Toddlers Behave in Restaurants

Having a toddler doesn't mean you have to stay home.

You don’t have to skip the convenience of a dinner out just because you have a toddler in tow. Make your dining experience positive by helping encourage good behavior from your 1- to 3-year-old. Your experience may not be as relaxing as it would be had you left your toddler at home with a sitter, but it can still be a good time.

Instructions

1. Choose the right restaurants. Don’t put your toddlers in an environment that encourages poor behavior -- super fine-dining establishments with white tablecloths and tuxedo-clad waiters are invitations for misbehavior due to boredom or stress. Opt for venues that have a kid’s menu, crayons and high chairs -- indicating that children are welcome.

2. Enforce positive behavior at home meals. Keep your toddler seated during meal times when you eat in your own kitchen because if you allow him to wander around at dinnertime at home, he will want to do so at a restaurant.

3. Dine early. Make sure your toddler is well-rested to reduce the chances that he will throw a temper tantrum because he's tired. You will also experience faster service and less wait time, meaning your toddler has to behave well for a shorter period of time.

4. Pack toddler-friendly snacks in a purse or diaper bag. Offer these to your toddler as soon as you sit down as he may get antsy while you read the menu and place an order. Choose portable, inconspicuous snacks such as cut-up fruit, crackers or dry cereal. Include a drink in a spill-proof cup as well.

5. Bring a quiet toy or books into the restaurant. Allow him to look at these on his own, but be willing to be somewhat interactive to prevent boredom from setting in and chaos ensuing. Electronic toys and small DVD players with the sound turned down are other options to keep your toddler occupied.

Tips & Warnings

• Be prepared to leave quickly if your toddler has a meltdown. Don’t let one bad experience discourage you from trying again. If you're consistent with your expectations, your toddler should eventually behave.

References

• Parents: Check, Please! How to Eat Out with Toddlers