How to Approach a Girl on the Dance Floor

Dance floors are common places for single people to meet each other.

The dance floor is where many relationships begin. Many people go to dance clubs in the hopes of meeting someone new and confidence is a must when approaching someone you are attracted to. If you see a girl on the dance floor you like, you should approach her quickly before someone else beats you to it. It is understandable to be nervous when approaching a girl for the first time, but there is no reward without risk.

Instructions

1. If possible, walk up to the girl at a time when she is not talking to someone else. You want to be a welcome addition to her evening and not an intrusion. If she is with a group of friends, approach in between songs to get her attention before the music starts.

2. Smile at the girl as you make eye contact and say hello. An attractive smile is very charming to most women and eye contact shows self-confidence, even if you are nervous. A simple "hi" opens the door for conversation and lets you gauge her reaction to you.

3. Compliment the girl about something specific that caught your eye, such as her smile or something about her outfit. This helps further establish yourself as someone interested in her and her reaction should let you know if that interest is returned.

4. Ask the girl to dance. While she is possibly there to meet new people, she likely wouldn't be on the dance floor if she didn't enjoy dancing, so this gives you a chance to bond, interact and converse if she accepts.

Tips & Warnings

• Take dance classes if you don't feel comfortable dancing. This increases your confidence and makes you more likely to impress your potential date. Dance next to a girl you're attracted to prior to saying hello as another way of getting her attention.

References

• TSB Magazine; Girls on the Dance Floor; Mustafa Shaikh
• SoSuave.com; Avoiding the Typical Mistakes Men Make at Clubs; Derek Vitalio