How to Teach Basic Social Skills to Kids in Conversation
Experienced parents will tell you that it's important to start young when teaching basic social skill to your children. Practicing social niceties paves the way for smooth interactions with others, shows that they have a high social I.Q. and ensures that they are always welcome in any circle. Don't make a big deal out of teaching your children the abilities that allow them to participate positively in society, however, simply slip casual lessons into everyday conversations.
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Instructions
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Always say "please" and "thank you" when interacting with your children and others in order to set a good example. When your little ones don't do the same, gently correct them until the habit comes naturally to them as well.
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Discourage burping and farting as a competitive sport among your kids. Tell them that it's poor manners to expel gas in a loud manner at home or in public. Instruct them that they should always say "excuse me" in the event of an unexpected occurrence.
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Encourage your children to speak confidently and authoritatively. Look directly at them while they speak, and listen to what they have to say. Remind them to make eye contact with others when speaking. Address their volume as well. Encourage children who speak softly to turn up the volume, and tone down those who talk at the top of their lungs when standing right next to you.
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Teach your children how to introduce themselves properly and shake hands. A young person who does so always impresses others with their maturity and social ability. Practice at home, and encourage your kids to approach others in a confident way when out.
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Insist that your children listen while other speak without interrupting. When they interrupt you during a conversation, simply say "I'm speaking to Mrs. Smith right now. I'll be glad to listen to you when I'm finished." By the same token, avoid interrupting your children when they're talking also.
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Use the behavior of others as teachable moments. When you see someone behaving badly in public, quietly discuss it with your children at a later time as an example of what not to do. By the same token, compliment them when they've shown superior social skills and practiced what you've taught them.
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Tips & Warnings
Lead by example. Your kids will emulate your behavior and pick up on your interpersonal skills.
Expose your kids to a variety of social settings so they become comfortable interacting with different kinds of people.
Don't turn into the social skills police. Children will often make blunders when interacting socially. The important thing is that they're learn from their mistakes.
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