How to Tell Someone Your Feelings in a Letter
Telling someone how you feel about them can sometimes be awkward. Saying your true feelings aloud may be intimidating, depending on the situation. Whether you are mad at the person or simply want to tell him you love him, one of the easiest ways to express your feelings is by writing a letter. Putting your words on paper can oftentimes bring out your true feelings without feeling scared of confrontation. Writing a letter expressing your feelings can be done using the right technique.
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Choose stationery that is pleasing to the eye. Colored paper such as a soft cream or white is appropriate. Use a pen with black or blue ink to hand-write your letter. Handwritten letters are more personal than typed.
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Choose a quiet, private area to write your letter. State the purpose of your letter. Write down your exact thoughts as if you were talking to the person. Choose your words carefully, since you don't want to give off the wrong impression. Say the words aloud to yourself, so you can hear how they sound.
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Go back in time to an occasion shared with the person. Recap the events of that moment in time, mentioning little details, such as how you felt the first time you met the person. If you are writing a love letter, let the person know some of the things you love about her.
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End your letter by reaffirming your feelings for the person. Write words that actually match your true feelings. This prevents high expectations, which may result in hurt.
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