How to Write What I Remember About a Brother
Writing what you remember about a brother is a good way to rekindle a relationship that was a big part of your upbringing. It can also be a way to celebrate your brother during a speech at his wedding, heal after the loss of a brother, or make peace with an estranged brother. Whatever the impetus, keep a positive spin on your piece to get the most out of it.
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Focus your writing. If you're making a speech at his wedding, for example, limit your recollections to one or two significant events. Couple a memory of him from the awkward middle school years along with a memory that illustrates his caring nature.
If you are writing to remember a brother that you lost, the focus can be broader. You can include intimate details about asking him for dating advice, for example, or remember a time when he came to your rescue.
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Cure writer's block by conjuring up memories and experiences. It can be difficult to write about a brother, especially when you're writing to make peace with a painful experience. If you and your brother are estranged, it can be difficult to come up with positive things to write about. Inspiration can be found in several places. You can visit a favorite family vacation spot to conjure up happy memories. Using old family photographs is also a good place to remember happier times. You also can ask other siblings or parents for help generating ideas.
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Review your work. If time permits, take a couple of days away from your writing. When you review it, read it out loud to make sure you're casting your brother in an appropriate way. What might have been a funny memory for you could show a part of your brother he might not want revealed. If you plan to publish the piece, this is the time to make sure transitions, grammar and punctuation are seamless
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