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How to Be a Foster Parent

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To be a foster parent you must be sure it is a challenge you are ready for. Foster parenting takes time, money and the right personality.

Difficulty: Moderate
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  1. Step 1

    Think about whether you would be able to care for children in your home for months or even years and then say goodbye to them and return them to their parents, who may have abused them in the past.

  2. Step 2

    Consider your family. If you have children at home, will they be able to handle the changes foster children will bring to the home?

  3. Step 3

    Understand that you need to have time to care for foster children. If you are very busy, you may not be able to devote the necessary amount of time.

  4. Step 4

    Know that although foster parents receive financial compensation, it is not a way to get rich or even make some extra money. Many foster parents find that they spend more money caring for the children than they receive from the state.

  5. Step 5

    Realize that foster care usually does not mean you will be caring for a sweet little baby. You may have hostile teenagers, depressed grade-schoolers and undisciplined preschoolers placed in your home.

  6. Step 6

    Contact your local department of social services or human services to obtain information about becoming a foster parent.

  7. Step 7

    Understand that to be a foster parent, you need to be approved by your state and become part of an agency. Placements are made by the social services department through agencies.

  8. Step 8

    Look in your phone book for the names of foster care agencies in your area. Call them and talk to them about becoming a foster parent.

  9. Step 9

    Talk to some foster parents to get an idea of what the reality of foster care really is.

  10. Step 10

    Undergo the necessary training program run by agencies in your area or through the social services department.

  11. Step 11

    Begin the application process with your local agency. Be prepared for some tough quesitons about your lifestyle, your abilities and your motives.

  12. Step 12

    Allow agency workers to inspect your home - through both scheduled and unscheduled visits.

  13. Step 13

    Be prepared to make changes to your home to make it safe or appropriate for foster children.

  14. Step 14

    Believe that helping a child who needs a home is one of the greatest and most unselfish ways you can make a difference in the world.

Tips & Warnings
  • Don't feel bad if you decide that foster parenting is not for you. There are many other ways you can help children in your community. Volunteer at a school or make donations of food and clothing to local shelters.

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sander444 said

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on 10/6/2009 I have been a foster parent for over 10 years and I feel helping children is a very important part of my life.There is no enjoyment like helping a child thru a bad situation. classymom-fostercare.blogspot.com

latrina said

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on 8/13/2009 well all foster kids need help but just because a kid is in foster care dosent mean they have bad issues everybody has issues..but i knw for a fact tht alot of foster kids will be happy if there was more foster homes instead of being in a girls home or on the streets so thts wat i got to say about it...

latrina said

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on 8/13/2009 well all foster kids are not bad in everybody has issues just because a kid is in foster care does not make them diffrent they are the same as you because everybody has a issue..but i think alot of kids will be very happy if there was more foster parents because theres alot of kids in the streets...

jakemi said

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on 7/30/2009 There are so many older children desperate for foster parents! Great article.

smartz said

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on 4/10/2009 I am a foster parent who is adopting three boys with FAS. You did a great job on this!

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