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Step 1
Be clear, consistent and gracious in your refusal. Be politely neutral rather than emphatic.
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Step 2
Don't hesitate, procrastinate or ask to think about it.
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Step 3
Express regret, if you'd like, but never say anything you don't mean, such as, 'Maybe another time.'
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Step 4
Devise an impersonal, generic explanation if you prefer, such as, 'I never date co-workers' or 'I'm involved with someone else.' Otherwise, simply refuse the invitation with a polite 'Thank you for thinking of me. I'm sorry I'll have to say no.'









Comments
shekwonyadu said
on 7/2/2009 Very good idea.infact i get alot of askees and most times i am just tired and don know what to tell'em but now i get it.tanx
ResearchJunkie said
on 5/7/2009 I learned this the hard way - and ended up having another guy friend tell the weirdo to leave me alone!
ecm1980 said
on 5/5/2009 Simple and to the point. very good.
fubbill said
on 5/5/2009 http://www.wcpo.com/content/news/fresh/story/3-Officers-Injured-While-Running-Down-Suspect/YeLwSjtYok2lV3aAarf5Hg.cspx?p=Comments
psychonurse said
on 12/31/2008 Just say no (thank you) and move on!