How to Leave Someone Who Doesn't Care About You
Though you may love someone deeply, if the other person doesn't return that love, the relationship isn't going to work. Leaving a relationship isn't easy, especially if you've been together for years, are living together or have children together. However, sometimes it is necessary for your personal growth and well-being. It's especially important to leave if you are in an abusive relationship. You may need to plan ahead, but ultimately, leaving is going to be the best thing for both you and your partner.
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Instructions
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Make a list of specific instances that show your partner doesn't care about you. This can help you to stay focused as you prepare to break up, especially if you're desperately searching for some signs of affection. Refer to this list any time you're having second thoughts about leaving.
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Establish your own bank account. If you're currently living together, you may have merged finances, which can make it difficult to leave. You'll need to have enough money to take care of yourself after leaving.
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Discuss your plans with a friend or family member. You'll need emotional support throughout the process, and you may also need a place to stay after the break-up.
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Explain to your partner why you're leaving. Talk with your partner, and explain that you want to break up and move on because you don't feel that your partner cares about you.
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Stand firm if your partner protests, but don't let the talk become confrontational. Your partner may apologize and try to say that he or she does care about you. If you're certain about leaving, you must not let this influence you.
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Tips & Warnings
If you are being physically, mentally or sexually abused, skip the talk and leave as quickly as possible. Charitable organizations may be able to help you get back on your feet.
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