How to Give a Compliment to an Acquaintance
While some compliments prove appropriate when you give them to a certain person in a specific situation, the same compliment given to another person under different circumstances might be offensive. Compliments function as a positive way to show recognition and appreciation for someone else; yet, sometimes, people interpret things differently from our intentions. When giving an acquaintance a compliment, choose your words carefully. Otherwise, you may find yourself in an uncomfortable and awkward situation.
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Instructions
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Choose something about the person that you safely could comment on without misunderstanding. For instance, notice whether he's wearing shoes you've been thinking about buying. Give her a compliment about her performance at work. Both compliments preclude the possibility of being misconstrued for sexual harassment or otherwise inviting awkwardness or vagueness -- as opposed to simply saying, "You look great today."
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Deliver the compliment in a light and cheerful tone. You might say, "Your necklace and bracelets are gorgeous. You've got a great eye for accessories." If commenting on achievements, say, "Congratulations on winning the achievement award; you deserve it for your unwavering dedication."
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Change the subject or excuse yourself. Don't wait expectantly for the person to thank you for the compliment, because he may not. Don't gush, either. Once you've given one compliment, quit, or you may seem insincere.
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Tips & Warnings
Sometimes, people may feel shy or awkward when given a compliment. Don't let that discourage you from giving appropriate and sincere compliments.
Avoid compliments about an acquaintance's physical attributes to prevent an awkward misunderstanding.
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