How to Keep a Family Close

Family relationships require nurturing and togetherness in order to thrive.

Spending time with your family requires planning, in today's busy society. Though everyday obligations require your time, not allowing time for family produces opportunities for disconnection. Young people who spend time with their parents display fewer tendencies toward negative behavior, such drug abuse or violence, Family Facts details.

Instructions

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   Sharing mealtimes can provide a fun time to share the day's experiences.

   Eat meals together whenever possible, especially dinner, when the day generally slows down. Allow appropriately aged children an opportunity to help in meal preparation, and turn off the television for more family focus during mealtimes.

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   Reading together offers bonding time for you and your child.

   Read to your children as often as possible, and allow them to read to you. Spending time in this manner assists in their overall skills development.

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   Family getaways provide time for enjoyable adventures.

   Take family vacations. Spending leisure time together does not necessitate traveling far. Simply make a point to focus on the family in a relaxed manner while exploring a new locale.

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   Staying on top of your child's education shows an ongoing interest in his future.

   Visit your child's school environment often. If unable to participate on a parent-teacher committee, meet with your child's teacher on a regular basis. Doing so allows for immediate notification of any potential problems.

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   Participate in your child's learning process, monitoring his homework and helping when necessary.

   Do homework together. If your child no longer requires your assistance, remain aware of his assignments and respective due dates.

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   Faith-based activities can promote family bonds, providing a base from which to draw strength.

   Attend religious services together. Religious centers offer events for all members of the family and provide an opportunity for education and togetherness.

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   Participate in a sporting activity with your family, and shore up each family member's interests.

   Spend leisure time your with family. Participate in a sport together, or routinely play games. If you or your child joins a team, make certain family members attend as many games as possible. Supporting each other in this manner promotes camaraderie and family pride.

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   Family meetings allow regular discussions and uninterrupted togetherness.

   Conduct weekly family meetings. Ignore all outside interference, such as the television, computer and cell phone. Set aside time for each member of the family to speak, agreeing to flexibility in time allotment. Make sure your family members know the meetings allow flexibility in scheduling, in case unexpected issues arise.

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   Counseling for your child can help clear the air, and sustain a feeling of family connection.

   Seek counseling, if necessary. If your family members display indifference toward one another, the examination of their feelings with a professional can help clear up nagging issues. Allow your child the opportunity to speak with someone as well if he displays unusual behavior or mood changes.

References

• Familyfacts: A Wise Investment: Benefits from Families Spending Time Together
• LSU Ag Center; Parenting; Strong Families Spend Time Together
• Parenting 24/7; Spending Family Time Together: It's the Little Things That Count; Diane Ryals; May 2008