How to Get Close to a Girl You Like

Getting close to the girl you like will require effort and time on your part.

So you like a girl, but you don't know how to get close to her. There are a million ways to get to know someone, but you need to find the right way. Getting over the initial hurdles of distance between two people takes time and effort, and you will likely have to get out of your comfort zone. Know that "getting close" is never a clearly defined goal and that, even if you don't end up forming a romantic relationship, you will have a new friend.

Instructions

1. Get to know her friends. Introduce yourself, or maybe chat with them one-on-one. If you want to get close with a girl, talk to the people who are already close to her.

2. Act naturally -- don't be unusually agreeable. Relationships are formed both on agreements and disagreements, and find playful grounds of argument. If you don't ever disagree, the relationship will turn stale quickly.

3. Pay attention to her. Find out what she enjoys talking about, and find ways to encourage talk about that. People like to talk about their interests and passions, so make room for it in your conversations.

4. Take things slowly. Getting to know someone takes time. Don't expect to "be close" with a girl after a week. Let time create the bond.

References

• Effective Attraction: To Get to Know a Girl
• Made Man: Get to Know a Girl