How to Create Passionate Moments

Learn about each other's needs to keep the passion sizzling.

Intimacy, understanding and a willingness to explore are all important to create passionate moments in a relationship. Sex must always be a key ingredient of a relationship for it to be healthy, lively and passionate. Equally important is couples' support for each other; passionate moments happen only when both partners are equally committed. Be spontaneous and create intimate moments that make your relationship romantic and beautiful.

Instructions

1. Create time for sex. Refuse to give into work and social commitments that demand you to stretch your time and energy to more than reasonable limits. Tuck kids into bed and make your bedtime early.

2. Improve your appearance. Take a hard look at yourself and analyze what changes can make you more beautiful. Start exercising regularly to get rid of your paunch or the extra baggage on your hips and other parts of the body. Shed the sweaty smell; perfumes are a great turn-on. Go for a different hairstyle, dress different from your normal style -- experiment with yourself.

3. Keep sex interesting. Make love in different rooms and don't limit yourself to the traditional position. Learn your partner's fantasies, and experiment. Try out the steamy scenes you read in romantic novels. Read books and Internet resources on how you can infuse variety into sex. Give into sex wholeheartedly; avoid thinking about your project deadlines or your kids' exam when you're in bed.

4. Create intimate moments throughout the day. Share a good morning kiss; exchange sweet nothings at morning coffee; hold hands frequently or call your partner during office breaks. Spend time learning each other's interests during an evening stroll. Besides increasing love and intimacy, such activities set an anticipatory mood for bedtime.

References

• Dr. Phil: Putting Passion Back Into Your Relationship
• She Knows; Making It Hotter; Jan. 2008