How to Know if a Guy Ever Commits to You
If you've been dating a guy for a while but he has yet to commit, you may be wondering what his intentions are. It can be frustrating when you develop feelings for a man but don't know if he feels the same way about you. Every man is different, so there are no defined rules to follow when trying to determine whether he will ever commit to you or not, but there are signs to look for that can help you to determine his intentions.
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Gauge his level of commitment by how he behaves when things get rough. If he's willing to stick with you through hard times, this is a good sign that he's in it for the long haul. If he runs away or acts distant when things aren't perfect, he probably won't be sticking around much longer.
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Consider his treatment of your feelings. If he's frequently willing to put your happiness and well-being ahead of his own, he is likely seeing his future with you in it. This man adores you. He is emotionally invested in you. He wouldn't put this much effort into your relationship if he wasn't preparing to spend the rest of his life with you.
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Listen closely when he talks about the future. Does he use the word "us?" If he frequently talks about your future together, he's definitely planning to have you in his life for a long time. If he avoids talking about the future, this is a sign that he probably isn't so sure that you're the one for him.
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Consider him ready to commit if he introduces you to his family, friends and co-workers. You mean a lot to him, and he wants to show you off to the other people in his life. If he wasn't serious about your relationship, he probably wouldn't bother making these introductions.
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