How to Handle Teenagers and Moving

The moving day can be very overwhelming for your teenager.

Many families move to a new location at least once in their lives, whether it's because of a job relocation or to be closer to family. A move is difficult for many teenagers because they have to leave their friends and school behind. Some of them worry about adjusting to another school and making new friends. As a parent, you must learn ways to help your teenager through this difficult time.

Instructions

1. Talk to him about the move. Tell him where you are moving to, and the reason behind the move. Help him understand the benefits of moving to a new location. For example, if you are moving to a new town because of a job relocation, say, "The promotion I received at work requires us to move to a different town. I will make a lot more money at this new position, and can make a better life for you."

2. Listen to her concerns. If she tells you that she is upset about leaving her friends or missing a school dance, be sympathetic. Tell her that you understand her concerns, and will do everything you can to make the transition easier. If it's feasible, offer to take her back for a special event at school, such as prom.

3. Give him information about the town you are moving to. Show him pictures of the new location, and tell him what aspects he will enjoy. For example, if your new home is near the woods, tell him he can ride his bike on a lot of different trails. If you are only moving across town, take him for a visit before you move.

4. Involve her in the moving process. Ask her to go to the grocery store to find old cardboard boxes, or help you pack items into boxes. Encourage her to donate the items she doesn't want to a charity or sell them in a garage sale.

References

• Kids Health.org: Preparing Your Child For a Move
• The Talk: Age-by-Age: Moving and Your Tween or Teen; Laura Betts
• 411Moving.com: How to Ease Moving for Your Teenager; Serena Norr