How to Give Oral Sex to a Man

The term for oral sex for men is "fellatio." It comes from the Latin, fellare, to suck. Fellatio can be profoundly symbolic. For many men, it’s the ultimate in sexual acceptance from a woman. Even when it isn’t, fellatio is an opportunity for the man to lie back and just receive pleasure, which is something many men find very arousing. Fellatio is very wet, which increases the ****’ sensitivity. And most women can be more varied and creative with their lips and tongues than with their vaginas.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Start by kissing the head of his ****.
2. Next lightly part your lips and lick the head and the corona, the little ridge around the base of the head.
3. Take the head into your mouth, using your lips and tongue to caress it and the corona--particularly the frenulum, the part of the corona on the underside of the head.
4. Eventually, move your head up and down so that your lips caress as much of the shaft as you can comfortably take in your mouth. However, the shaft is considerably less sensitive than the head, corona, and frenulum, so return frequently to these sensitive places--unless the man asks for something different.

Tips & Warnings

• If a woman would rather not have semen in her mouth, the couple might compromise on fellatio with the man using a condom. That way he can ejaculate inside her mouth, but not into it. For condom-covered fellatio, the man’s pleasure can be enhanced by placing a drop of lubricant on the head of his **** before rolling on the condom. The woman’s pleasure can be increased by using flavored condoms or a lifesaver. As for swallowing semen, when women learn that it’s more than 95 percent water, some become less squeamish. Or a woman might keep a strong-flavored drink in a glass with a straw within arm’s reach, for example, grape juice, chocolate milk, ice tea, red wine, or a liqueur. It’s not difficult for most women to suck on a straw while holding a teaspoon of semen in their mouths. The beverage can help the semen go down easier. But if a woman would rather not swallow, that personal preference should be respected. In porn, the women rarely swallow. Instead, they make a great show of letting semen dribble out of their mouths and massaging it into their skin. This can be quite an erotic sight. Some women don’t want to taste or swallow semen because they fear it may spread sexually transmitted infections (STI’s). It is possible for a man to give a woman gonorrhea this way. To eliminate this fear, get tested for STI’s, and treated if you have any. Or wear a condom during fellatio--and intercourse.