How to Get a Pearl Engagement Ring Made

A pearl engagement ring is a stunning alternative to a diamond.

Getting engaged is one of the most exciting times in a woman's life and one of the most nerve-wracking for the groom-to-be. Whether you are excited to propose or nervous beyond belief, having the right ring in hand can be a huge confidence booster. The traditional look for an engagement ring is a diamond in the centersolitaire, but anything goes, as long as the bride loves it. Because a pearl engagement ring is so unique, not every jeweler will offer this choice. Find a custom jewelry maker and design your own to ensure that you and your bride end up with the perfect ring.

Instructions

1. Find a jeweler that specializes in custom jewelry so you have the freedom to design it yourself and have access to the most options. Adiamor.com and Leahashley.com are two websites that allow you to custom design your own jewelry.

2. Decide on the type of pearl you would like. Some pearls are a very bright white, while others have a more yellowwer, more antique look. Still others have a pink cast. Choose your color based on what compliments your bride's taste: does she like more contemporary styles or more traditional?

3. Choose a metal that matches the pearl you choose. White gold and platinum look good with a bright white pearl, while yellow gold perfectly complements a yellow-toned pearl. Rose gold is the best accent for a pink-hued pearl.

4. Choose a size for your pearl based on your budget and your bride's preferences. If she likes her jewelry to be big and noticeable, choose the biggest one you can afford (within reason). If she prefers a smaller, more modest look, go for a smaller pearl. In general, pearls range from 13 millimeters (relatively small) to 20 millimeters (very big).

5. Discuss certain special looks with your jewelry, such as a twisted band, raised pearl, engraved metal on the sides or any other special touches that you would like to add. Most jewelers are able to draw or show you a few different options of the final product.

6. Find out your bride's ring size by having her try on a ring sizer. This can be done at a jewelry store or in your own house by printing one offlineoff the Internet. You can find a printable ring sizer on Bluenile.com/find-ring-size.

Tips & Warnings

• Adiamor.com does offer pearl jewelry, but their custom ring builder is meant for diamond engagement rings. You can use this tool to get an idea of what you like, then ask your jeweler to create that look with a pearl instead. Bluenile.com offers a similar tool.

References

• Leah Ashley: Pearl Engagement Ring
• Blue Nile: Finding Your Ring Size
• Shecy Pearl Jewelry: Pearl Ring Style: Cocktail Ring: Pearl Engagement Ring
• Adiamor: Build Your Own Engagement Ring