- Although the roles between men and women have become redefined over the years, men are still men and women are still women, so how does a woman in this day and age impress a man she is interested in? Men by and large are creatures aroused by visual stimuli, therefore a man is going to be impressed first and foremost by the way she looks. In addition to her facial features and the shape of her body, a man is going to be attracted to her sense of style and her ability to present her best self. Her dress says much about how she values herself and although she may not be built like a supermodel, if she dresses her best, she is going to be impressive.
- Believe it or not men want kindness in a woman. "The Taming of the Shrew" works great in the world of literature, but not in real life. Men want to see a woman is sincerely kind to her friends and loving toward children. Does she have an outlet other than her own beautification or is she as shallow as an ashtray? Men love it when a woman is as passionate about demonstrating her kindness as she is in her other endeavors. A man loves it when a woman is uplifting in her speech and attitude towards others.
- This is the hardest one to achieve in that for the most part, women do not need men in their lives these days except to sire children and even that is slowly but surely in danger of being phased out. A way a woman can earn points and impress a man is to allow him to be "the man" by leading. By no means is this author suggesting a woman should dumb herself down to impress a potential catch who may not be her equal, but allowing for the differences in the genders and letting the man express that in his desire to truly lead, let's a man know he has a place to be himself. In the end, if she is herself, and honest about who she is, the man will find her attractive and his first impression may turn to something more substantially amorous.
