The Christmas holidays usually means that family gatherings are inevitable. They are as much a part of the season as decorating the tree and gift shopping. Traditional seasonal get-togethers or parties with your extended family members can add stress to this time of year, as you struggle to plan, organize and prepare for the occasion. Sometimes, the very thought of throwing this event can be overwhelming. However, it doesn't have to be stressful, if you keep certain things in mind.