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Parisian boy fashions can include a crisp button up for a little bit of structure and a few other choice items. Learn about Parisian boy fashions with help from an accomplished fashion professional in this free video clip.
Handbags come in a variety of styles and colors depending on an individual's needs and tastes. Larger bags are ideal for teenagers because they hold many of the day-to-day items required for school -- books, lunches, personal items and even laptops. Smaller bags are ideal for those who only wish to carry the basics. When shopping for the best handbag, choose a style and size that’s versatile enough for your daily schedule and complements your personal taste.
A major difference exists between true antisocial behavior and having a bad day or week. Many teens feel the pressure of doing well at school, getting into a good college, fitting in with peers and living under the rules of his household. Sometimes it’s too much at once, but the troubling behavior will pass as quickly as it started. Chronic antisocial behavior, however, can indicate that something more serious is going on.
Friendship and learning to interact with peers is crucial to a teenager's development. As your child moves into adolescence, time spent with friends without parental supervision will increase as will interaction with peers of the opposite sex. Cliques will form and your teen may begin to hang out with a particular crowd. While these experiences are a critical part of growing up, parents need to know who their teenager's friends are, be aware of changes in those friendships and work to keep the lines of communication open.
The teen years are awkward for everyone, yet as a parent, you likely yearn to help your child navigate the murky waters of adolescence unscathed. This task can become more difficult if you perceive your child’s level of social maturity is lagging behind that of his peers. Dr. Steven Richfield, child psychologist and author of “The Parent Coach: A New Approach to Parenting in Today’s Society,” notes the varied maturity levels observed in today’s teens and describes the pitfalls that can await those at the lower end of the spectrum. By acknowledging your teen’s trailing maturity, however, you can help…
Sneaking out might be a common teen transgression, but that doesn't mean it should go unpunished. If a teen is sneaking out at night, it's likely that he's engaging in a behavior that's dangerous. According to HealthyChildren.org, the website of the American Academy of Pediatrics, you should aim to match the severity of the punishment with the severity of the deed. Thus, a teen who was caught drinking might receive a harsher punishment than one who was just hanging out with friends.
Your teen has high expectations for her social life, but every break from school does not call for an exotic vacation. When your teen's away from school, design staycations that can be just as memorable as a jaunt to a distant locale. Allow your teen to explore some undiscovered gems in your hometown. Or, design out-of-the-ordinary activities that will occupy your teen when she's off from school. Either way, a staycation can be as busy and enjoyable as your classic vacation.
Teenagers, people between the ages of 13 and 19, are engaged in the process of discovering their personal identity as separate from their adults for the first time. Besides driver licenses and increased individual privileges, fashion allows them to explore new-found identities through their personal style.
Contrary to what many teens might believe, not everyone is "doing it." About half of all U.S. teens are not sexually active. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 47.7 percent of high school students surveyed in 2011 said they'd engaged in sexual intercourse at least once.
In Christian families, baptism takes many different forms, including christening babies and small children, baptizing children at the end of confirmation classes or when teens make a commitment to Christ. Some teens also opt to be rebaptized to take the vows that parents took when the teen was too young to know what the vows meant. The baptism ritual and question vary according to denomination.
Although a healthy teenager isn't at the same risk of dehydration as a young infant or an elderly person, your teen's busy lifestyle, illness or athletic participation can increase the risk. Drinking lots of caffeinated beverages such as soda, coffee or energy drinks can also potentially increase your teen's chances of dehydration, according to KidsHealth.org. Understanding the symptoms of dehydration helps alert you and your teen to take action before her condition becomes more serious, or even deadly.
The availability of online pornography and potentially deadly sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) makes it crucial for parents to teach their children about sex. However, teens often learn from their friends -- sometimes incorrectly -- long before their parents sit them down for "the talk." The more accurate information kids learn about their bodies, the better their chances of protecting themselves from STDs and unwanted pregnancy.
Teenagers go through shoes like they do moods. Their ever-changing collection gets them through a year -- and possibly beyond -- of school, work, and social and sporting activities. The key to finding a great pair of shoes is making sure it fits right, feels comfortable and looks stylish. Versatility is also important -- the best shoes go from morning to night and complement an entire range of outfits.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reports that nearly 400,000 girls between 15 and 19 years old give birth each year. Balancing pregnancy and parenting with schoolwork is challenging, but teens have several options available to help make the task easier. The key is to start thinking about how pregnancy will affect a teen's schoolwork as soon as possible so that there is plenty of time to make all of the necessary arrangements.
As much as you want your teen to succeed in high school, this is not always the case. Your teen might struggle in school due to stress, family or relationship issues or concerns or because he is focusing on something else. The primary way to help your teen improve his school performance is to pinpoint the reason that he is struggling. Addressing the problem and providing assistance through counseling, additional parental support and direct cooperation with teachers can improve how your teen achieves in school.
Religion often gets bad press. When you watch the news and see misguided religious fanatics picketing funerals, allowing your teen to attend religious services might make you feel a bit uneasy. Fortunately, however, such negativity is the exception. Evidence overwhelmingly shows that religious participation leads to positive social and mental health outcomes for teenagers.
In many cases, mental illnesses appear during the teen years. Some teens are predisposed to mental health conditions, while others experience them due to a life event. Agoraphobia typically manifests in teens who have panic attacks and is described as an intense fear of having symptoms in a public place, according to the Center for Psychological and Behavioral Science. Understanding the illness helps you get your teen the help she needs to cope with agoraphobia.
Many teens grow up with a sense of entitlement. "Give me more and give it to me now!" might reflect the attitude you often encounter. Teaching your teens to live with less will not only help them be happier and have better balance in their lives, it will also help them get through difficult times in the future. Such lessons will prove invaluable when funds are tight or if they lose a job.
If your accommodating little angel has recently sprouted horns, take heart. It's all a part of the growing process. The preteen years are frequently marked by roller-coaster emotions, secretiveness and tears as your daughter stumbles along on the road to becoming a teen. Make her journey a little easier by being there to pick up the pieces when things fall apart.
When it comes to giving "the talk" about sex and relationships, a 2010 study by the Guttmacher Institute reveals that some parents feel uncomfortable by the thought -- 39 percent, to be exact. While talking to your preteen about sex can be awkward, it can also be educational and fulfilling. By adjusting your information based on age and making sex a frank topic in your household, talking about sex doesn't have to make you or your preteen feel uncomfortable.
Being a teenager is hard for a “normal” kid -- add autism to the hormones and you end up with a volatile mix. The teenage years are marked with many changes, including going to high school and transitioning to adulthood. The less charming indicators of the teenage state, including uncommunicative behavior and poor hygiene habits, seem even more pronounced in teenagers with autism. While some of the tricks you used when your child was younger will still work in his teen years, you might have to create some new routines to help your teen through this time.
Teenagers have to juggle emotional issues from changing relationships to struggling to find their own identity and independence. Teens’ expressions of anger and resentment are frequently in response to one of these emotional issues. Dr. Harry Mills at Mental Health.net says anger is a normal response to either physical or emotional pain. When prolonged and pent-up anger evolves to the point of destructive action, it becomes resentment. If the expression of anger is normal and healthy, how can you tell if your teen’s pent-up anger and resentment is a problem?
If you give Scruffy the run of the house, don't be surprised if your home ends up in shambles. Your puppy's curious, playful and adventurous nature might have him use your couch pillows as chew toys and your bed as his potty. Additionally, your pet companion has no clue about the dangers lurking throughout the house. While your puppy learns good manners, confine him to one area of the house. It'll keep him safe and give you peace of mind.
While children of all ages gossip, gossip is most prevalent in teenagers, especially teenage girls. Parents, usually uninvolved in the actual topics of gossip, have a strong interest in gossip itself, as gossip tends to be hurtful to at least one child in the topic. Knowing why teens gossip is the first step to solving a problem caused by gossip.
According to Education.com, your teenager is at an age where he is exerting his independence -- perhaps no shock to you. He is beginning to question authority while at the same time desiring to maintain a connection to his family. He is learning to think abstractly, taking an interest in news and thinking about his future. Classic novels that challenge his thoughts while educating him and appealing to his interests are certain to be appreciated, loved, and re-read.
If you thought the eye-rolling and attitude wouldn’t start until your son became a teenager, you were probably wrong. Preteen boys are just as susceptible to attitude problems as their teenage counterparts, and it can be a difficult adjustment for you. However, you can minimize the effects of his negative attitude by employing the right parenting skills and techniques. He may not be your sweet little boy anymore, but he also doesn’t have to be your terrible teen.
Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are spread through any form of sexual contact. Engaging in unprotected sex and contracting STDs are not uncommon among teenagers. Teens who engage is risky sexual behaviors -- such as having multiple sex partners ad not using condoms-- place themselves at an increased risk of contracting a host of STDs including HIV/AIDS. Nearly 40 percent of sexually active teens said they did not use a condom the last time they had sex, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC.)
Bullying is a serious problem for many American teenagers. According to statistics from a 2010 survey by the National Center for Education, 39 percent of middle school administrators reported that bullying took place in their schools on a daily basis. (see ref. 1 p. 2) With statistics like these, it's not surprising that parents, teens and educators are concerned and even frightened about bullying. Learning the reasons teens are motivated to become bullies in the first place may shed some light on this widespread problem.
Fibromyalgia is one of a group of conditions referred to as musculoskeletal pain syndrome. Fibromyalgia causes varying degrees of pain in the muscles and soft tissues that encase the joints. Juvenile fibromyalgia or juvenile primary fibromyalgia syndrome (JPFS) typically begins in the teen years, (See Reference 3) with 13 being the average age of onset (See Reference 4.) Up to 75 percent of teens with the condition have a family member who suffers from fibromyalgia, explains the he National Fibromyalgia Association (NFA.)
Steroid use is a hot issue in sports, as many people, adults and teens alike, look for any advantage to get ahead of the competition. Steroids are artificially produced hormones designed to mimic the male sex hormones, androgens, according to KidsHealth.org. Steroid use is very dangerous and should be taken seriously by parents.
Just like younger children, teenagers need consistency, stability and defined rules by which to live. When you establish the house rules, you are clearly defining what you expect from your teen and what the consequences are for breaking those rules. Such rules should help your household run a bit smoother and create a more respectful atmosphere for everyone.
How do you know if a teenager is lying? His mouth is moving. Though it isn’t quite as dire as this anonymous and playful parenting tip would suggest, teens can and do lie. Though there is no “good” reason for lying, teens often have rational motivations for telling untruths. To better combat your teen’s lies, improve your understanding of what is making him lie in the first place.
Tendons are structures that connect muscles to bones and help to support joints. As the joint moves, the moving muscle pulls and stretches the tendon. Repeated movement, especially in an awkward position, can irritate the tendon, causing inflammation and tendonitis. The pain can be quite severe and usually occurs when the joint is moved. Tendonitis can occur in any joint, although it often involves the wrist, elbow, shoulder, ankle, knee or hip joints.
Communication is a skill that can help people to establish and build relationships. The skill of listening is integral to good communication, and the Resource Center for Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention says teens are often focused on expressing their ideas to the exclusion of listening effectively to the person with whom they are having a conversation. In addition to not knowing how to listen, teens may not listen effectively because of sleep deprivation, “tuning out” or multitasking.
While goiters aren't very common in teens, they can occur, especially if your teen has one or more risk factors. Goiter can happen in males or females, but is more likely in females. Luckily, in most cases a goiter is nothing to worry about and isn't dangerous or painful. Still, if your teen has a goiter it's a good idea to educate her, and yourself, on the condition.
Thrush is a condition that occurs when the natural yeast in your teen's body overgrows and the balance is thrown off in her body. This can happen anywhere in or on the body, but is most common in moist areas such as the mouth and genitals. Thrush can even occur on the skin as well.
Teenagers need calcium to build strong bones and teeth and prevent later conditions such as osteoporosis. Teens need almost twice as much calcium as younger children, but most don't get enough of this crucial nutrient. Only one in four teenage boys and fewer than one in 10 teenage girls consume enough calcium, according to the National Institutes of Health.
By the teen years, you shouldn't need to worry about homesick sleepover guests, but you may deal with noise, pranks, gossip and boredom. The planning phase is key to organizing the entertainment for your teen's slumber party. She will likely want to have a hand in all of the party planning so that all of the details fit her personality. If you're facing a house full of teens for an overnight party, load up on snacks, games and activities to keep them entertained -- and to save your sanity.
If your teenager is eating you out of house and home, you’re not alone. Most adolescents have huge appetites because they’re going through the growth spurt of puberty. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, the body needs more calories during early adolescence than at any time of life. But those calories should come from a balanced diet filled with nutrient-dense foods to meet the daily nutrient requirements of a teenager. Adolescents most often fall short on calcium, iron and zinc, but teens also need adequate protein, carbohydrates and healthy fats.
Some aspects of a teenager's personality traits are influenced by genetics, says Teens Health. Around 20 percent of people have a naturally shy disposition, but this genetic tendency can be greatly affected by life experiences and relationships throughout childhood and adolescence. A shy child whose parents are particularly anxious or overprotective may become even more shy as a teenager. It is also common for outgoing, confident children to have periods of shyness and withdrawal as teenagers.
Male role models are critical for teenagers, both boys and girls. During adolescence, children are learning important lessons about life and as they try to work out their place in the world, they look to the adults in their life for guidance. Not all teenagers grow up with their fathers, of course, but other men in their lives, including stepfathers and uncles, can be positive male role models.
Just as adults deal with stress from various sources, teens also must navigate overwhelming and stressful situations. From school to family to peers and friends, teenagers experience anxiety and worry. While some amount of stress can be positive, if a teen becomes overwhelmed and anxious, unhealthy coping strategies may seem tempting to a teenager. By monitoring your teenager, you can watch for signs of stress and provide healthier options for coping.
Harmony in the home can make life happy and pleasant for everyone. Unfortunately, siblings often have trouble getting along. Some amount of conflict between siblings – termed sibling rivalry – is almost unavoidable, according to the Utah State University website. Parents might help improve the family environment by instituting house rules for behavior between siblings.
When a teenager storms into her room and slams the door, she is not simply being difficult. Teens need plenty of space to create the distance between themselves and their parents that to help establish their own identities. It can be tough for parents to see their sweet little child turn into a recluse, but it is a natural part of adolescence.
If letting your teen into the kitchen makes you cringe because she leaves a trail of food and trash in her wake, you might be doing her a disservice. Allowing your kids to spend time in the kitchen with you offers several benefits. Baking is a form of cooking that works for chefs of all skill levels, making it an ideal place to start. Let your teen help you bake something and you'll both have a tasty treat and enjoy some time together.
Almost all teens struggle with teacher-student relationships occasionally. Whether it's a difference in personalities or perceived unfairness, having your teen hate her teachers won't help her learn. Because teens can often be dramatic in their perceptions, it's up to you to decipher the problem and either help your teen learn to cope or deal with the teacher.
Most parents dread the time when their teenagers want to go to concerts without supervision. Rap concerts are a particular cause for concern: according to Crowd Management Strategies, rap concerts are the most violent of all types of concerts. If your teen loves rap music and is desperate to go to a concert, help him prepare in advance to ensure he behaves sensibly during the gig.
It's not easy for teenagers to show compassion, especially when they're preoccupied with schoolwork, hobbies, relationships and social activities. However, teens often demonstrate compassion as a way to relate and respond to the world around them. Parents can model kindness and support opportunities for teens to show compassion, but they shouldn't demand it. A teenager will likely feel a greater emotional connection and obtain a higher level of satisfaction if she's the one who instigated and performed the acts of kindness.
Raising a teenager would seem to be easier than tending to the needs of a mewling infant; however, this isn’t always the case. Yes, a teen can feed himself and he doesn’t require pesky diaper changes, but he can also argue. If you have a hard-headed teen, you may feel that every interaction you have with him is argument filled. To reduce the amount of time you must dedicate to arguing with your difficult-to-sway teenager, carefully select your words and stick to your message, making it clear that you’re in charge.
As if being a teenager wasn’t hard enough -- now your teen has to put her life into boxes. If your move takes her to a place where she'll be the new kid, things will be even harder on teen and parent alike. Whether you’re moving down the street or to the other side of the globe, your teen needs you to talk her through this transition and assure she'll make it through in one piece.
