Effective Communication With Teenage Girls

Teenage girls may be more comfortable communicating via technology.

The teenage years can be especially difficult for girls, who generally experience more interpersonal stressors than boys, according to WebMD. By communicating effectively, friends and family members can help teenage girls deal with stress and establish solid, healthy relationships.

Goal

Effective communication involves listening and talking. It involves much more than simply getting your teenager to do what you want or to tell you her secrets. The goal of effective communication is to be able to talk to each other about a wide range of topics over a long period of time.

Method

Set up a good foundation for communication with a teenage girl by establishing a pattern of easy, friendly conversation. Ask open-ended questions that encourage lengthy responses. Take your time discussing a topic, even if there is a particular point you wish to make.

Strategies

Choose a time of day and location that are conducive to conversation. Teenage girls may not be communicative first thing in the morning until they have had a chance to wake up a bit. Talking side-by-side rather than face-to-face may make it easier for a girl to speak openly.

References

• WebMD: Teen Girls Have Tougher Time Than Boys
• Family Circle: Communicating With Your Teen
• Today's Parent: Warning: Curves Ahead