Grieving the Death of a Child

Grieving the death of a child is a long term process.

Few things are more tragic than the premature death of a child. Whether the passing is expected and comes after a long illness, or comes up unexpectedly, many people find that dealing with the passing of a young person is an especially difficult emotional task.

Effects

Grief can have a variety of effects on those who mourn the death of a child. Many people experience depression, along with more specific physical and emotional side effects which may include lethargia, inactivity, guilt, anger or feelings of apathy or disconnection. Those suffering after the death of a young person may also find that their grief manifests itself as physical pains in their chest, head or other parts of the body.

Time Frame

For those close to the deceased, grieving a child is a lifelong process. Grief is a continual process especially for the parents or close family members. No one can predict an exact ending point for an individual's grief following the tragic loss of a child, but it is important to remember that with time, the pain of the loss often becomes more bearable.

Function

Grief is the process by which people are able to come to terms with the loss of a child or other loved one. The grieving process allows the parents and other loved ones close to the child to remember and celebrate the child's life and eventually move beyond the overwhelming sadness that occurs immediately following a death. Grief is a natural and healthy reaction to the tragic loss.

Therapy

Those experiencing extreme grief after the loss of a child may benefit from talking with a professionally licensed therapist. Therapists can often help those wrestling with the grieving process to come to terms with the loss of their loved one.

References

• Grief Watch: Symptoms of Grief
• Science Direct: Grief work, disclosure and counseling: Do they help the bereaved?