Free Divorce Advice for Fathers
Divorce is a difficult time for any individual, and even more difficult when children are involved. Many times, fathers feel that they are also giving up their children. Fathers need to be made aware of their rights and their obligations during the divorce process.
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Know Your Rights
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Divorcing fathers have rights. The specifics of these rights vary by state, but all states have laws regarding child support, parenting time and division of marital debts and assets. The key to protecting these rights is learning what they are. Much of this information is available online with state-specific laws.
Document Concerns
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During the divorce procedure, emotions often run high, but if you have a concern, note it with the date and time of occurrence or discovery. Do not be overly critical; if your kids have always slept on the living room floor on Friday nights, do not suddenly point out your spouse's poor parenting skills. If you observe cases where your child's needs are not being met, your spouse refuses to let you see your children or you notice that marital assets are missing, this should be documented.
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Know Your Responsibilities
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Each party is equally responsible for the debts of the marriage until the courts order otherwise. Although you are no longer with your spouse, it does not mean that your legal obligations to the marriage have ceased. If you jointly own property or are carrying debt, these are still legally your responsibility. Do not remove your spouse from your health insurance until told to do so. Continue making sure debts are paid. The more responsible you are during the initial separation, the more favorable the divorce settlement will likely be.
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