Military Code of Conduct With Significant Others

Every aspect of a service member's life is governed by the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ). This includes how the member interacts with a significant other, especially in public, when it is called a public display of affection.

Types

Any form of physical contact with a significant other is considered part of the code of conduct. Kissing, holding hands and hugging are examples of conduct covered by the UCMJ.

Locations

For the most part, the UCMJ covers only conduct that occurs in public, whether it happens on-base or off-base. Private locations are covered if illegal activities, such as spousal abuse, are occurring or if the activities can be seen by outside individuals.

Exceptions

Public displays of affection, such as hugging and kissing, are allowed at most homecoming and deployment services, notes MilSpouse.com. In some cases, public displays of affection are allowed at graduation ceremonies.

Warning

A military member is bound by the rules of the UCMJ, including the code of conduct rules, whether in uniform or not. Disciplinary actions may occur if the service member breaks the code, even if he is in civilian clothing.

References

• MilSpouse: Do's and Don'ts While in Uniform
• U.S. Department of Defense: Uniform Code of Military Justice