Return Address Etiquette for Wedding Invitations

Romantic Invitation

Weddings are all about tradition--from the wedding dress, to the first dance and invitations. A return address may seem simple, but if this detail falls to the wayside, you and your new spouse might be wondering why your gifts were sent to Mom and Dad.

Type of Invitation

The invitation should dictate the style and theme of the wedding. It gives the guests a clue to the proper attire to wear: formal, semiformal or casual. Paper invitations inform guests and come in many colors, formats and styles.

Purpose of Return Address

Recipients use the return address on a wedding invitation to send responses and gifts. Even if the bride's parents are hosting the wedding, the return address should be that of the couple.

Placement on the Envelope

The return address should be on the back flap on the envelope. On the front left of the envelope, it distracts from the invitation and initial welcoming the guest to the wedding event.

Style

The wedding invitation itself should garner all of the reader's attention. The return address should be discreet and plain.

Casual Invitations

A return address on a casual wedding invitation can be handwritten. Weddings are intimate events, and handwriting every return address add a personal element.

References

• Crane & Co.: Addressing the Envelopes
• AnnouncingIt: Invitation Do's and Don'ts

Resources

• The Knot: Wedding Invitations - Etiquette Q&A