Pastoral Dating Etiquette
Pastoral dating has a very sterile stigma attached to it: Because there is no sex involved, pastoral dating doesn't create deep emotional ties. In reality, the lack of a physical connection puts more emphasis on the emotional and spiritual connections between the couple. While pastoral dating is strict in comparison to the lax view of dating in society today, it is still fulfilling and fun.
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Praying
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Prayer is a big part of pastoral dating. If both people in the relationship are Christians, prayer is perfectly acceptable and encouraged before and after the date.
Kissing
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A first kiss should happen on your wedding day, according to pastoral dating etiquette. Kissing is strongly discouraged in pastoral dating. Pastoral dating etiquette recommends that you save your first kiss for your wedding day.
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Double Dating
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Group dates help maintain purity in dating relationships. Dating with another couple is strongly encouraged, as there is less of a chance of physical intimacy.
Sex
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Ne sex allowed! Sex is strongly discouraged when it comes to pastoral dating. In fact, Christians believe that sex should be saved for the wedding night.
God Comes First
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God's love is central to pastoral dating. In pastoral dating, both people must believe and agree that God comes first. Each person must understand that God comes first to the other.
Paying
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The man should pay for the date. It is perfectly acceptable for the man to pay for the entire date, or for the couple to pay for themselves. However, it is not appropriate for the woman to pay for the entire date.
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