Fact Sheet
What to Do About Abusive Roommates
If your roommate is abusing you, make an effort to get out of the home and take legal actions to protect yourself.
Shelters
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If you are unable to move from the abusive situation because of financial concerns, there are likely shelters in your area that will allow you to stay to remove yourself from an abusive situation.
Peace Order/Protective Order
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Most states provide legal protection to abuse victims. Contact the courthouse or police department to inquire about steps you can take to get a court order requiring your roommate to stay away from you.
Contact Police
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If the abuser contacts you, threatens you or in any other way harms you, contact the police department immediately. Do not allow your abuser to continue to harass you, as it may escalate over time.
Stay Away
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Do not contact your roommate. Allowing yourself to remain in contact with the roommate increases the likelihood that you will continue to be abused. Take steps to be away from the roommate permanently.
Be Safe
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When collecting your thoughts away from the roommate, be cautious and safe. Avoid being alone, watch out for people following you and avoid dangerous situations.
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